第四步：接受你不能控制别人的想法
现实是，你无法控制别人的行动和反应。
The reality is, you cannot control others actions and reactions.
而黑暗是一种想要压制和控制别人的能量。
记住，你无法控制别人或控制别人的想法。
你无法控制别人的反应。
你无法控制别人的口味，所以保持真实的自己。
You have no control over other people's taste, so focus on staying true to your own.
所以他们是很难控制别人的，但也不要仇视他们。
So believe them to be difficult to handle people, but don't develop hatred towards them.
语言是交际者用来影响和控制别人的一个象征性资源。
Language is a symbolic resource that speakers use to influence and control others.
你无法控制别人的反应。然而，你可以保证你一直前进。
You can't control other's responses. However, you can make sure you move on.
不管我们多么不希望发生类似的事，我们还是无法控制别人的生活。
As much as we hope otherwise, we cannot control where another life leads.
《盗梦空间》里清醒地做梦的主人公们可以控制别人的梦吗？
Can the Lucid Dreaming Heroes Of "Inception" Take Over the Dreams Of Others?
事实上不管怎样这都是一种幻觉——你不能控制别人的想法。
The truth is that it's all an illusion anyway – you cannot control what other people think.
甚至即使我们拥有慈悲心，我们也是不能够控制别人的痛苦的。
Even if we ourselves have compassion we can't control the suffering of others.
你碰到尴尬事虽然无法控制别人的反应，但你可以控制自己的反应。
While you can't control how others will react to your embarrassing moment, you can control how you will react.
谈话的一大优势就是它给你一个机会，以控制别人的思想和行动。
One big advantage of speaking is that it gives you a chance to control others' thoughts and actions.
既然你无法控制别人的想法和情绪，那你想要什么？我想感到被爱。
Since you can't control anyone else's thoughts and emotions, what do you want? I want to feel loved.
虽然你不能控制别人的消极行为，但是你可以控制自己参与其中多久。
While you can't control someone's negative behavior, you can control how long you participate in it.
“你无法控制别人的口味，所以保持真实的自己。”——提姆·冈恩。
"You have no control over other people's taste, so focus on staying true to your own." — Tim Gunn.
“你无法控制别人的口味，所以保持真实的自己。”——提姆·冈恩。
You have no control over other people's taste, so focus on staying true to your own. "— Tim Gunn".
我们无法控制别人的谣言；但是幸福的生活让我们可以忽略那些中伤。
We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
这是每一个人的权利，只要他不仰仗自己的权利去伤害或者控制别人的权利。
which is the right of every man as far as by it if he does not hurt or control the right of another.
有些人不能用理性的方式来证明给大家看，为什么又要想控制别人的想法呢？
Why would anyone need to control the thoughts of other people unless he was unable to prove his case by rational means?
我的大儿子经常会对他的小弟弟指手画脚，他是那种喜欢控制别人的小家伙。
Like my older son tries to direct his baby brother a lot. He is a strong willed dude.
第二，控制别人的眼睛，使别人的眼睛成为邪视眼，近视眼，老花眼，看不出门道，看不出秘密。
Second, to control other people's eyes, so that the eyes of others to become the evil eye, myopia, presbyopia, see doorway, see the secret.
很容易理解你是如何得到这样的结论的：你感觉良好的路径是通过影响或控制别人的行为而达成的。
It is easy to understand how you would come to the conclusion that your path to feeling good is through influencing or controlling the behavior of others.
当然单词掌握的越多越好，因为即使你可以控制自己使用的单词量，但你却不能控制别人的单词量。
The more you know the better because even though you can control the words you use, you can't control the other person.
当然单词掌握的越多越好，因为即使你可以控制自己使用的单词量，但你却不能控制别人的单词量。
The more you know the better because even though you can control the words you use, you can't control the other person.
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