You should not care too much about your friend, when male or female. Otherwise, he or she will feel over pressure. But you should not neglect him or her. Otherwise you will lose contact forever.

对一个朋友，且不论男女朋友，不能太过于重视，否则对方会觉得压力很大，会被你的重视压的喘不过气，但又不能过于疏忽，过于疏忽，可能就不会在有联系。

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You should not care too much about your friend, when male or female. Otherwise, he or she will feel over pressure. But you should not neglect him or her. Otherwise you will lose contact forever.

对一个朋友，且不论男女朋友，不能太过于重视，否则对方会觉得压力很大，会被你的重视压的喘不过气，但又不能过于疏忽，过于疏忽，可能就不会在有联系。

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