我不是鱼，你也不是水。没有你的爱，我依然会好好的活。
I'm not the fish, you are not the water. I will still living very well without your love.
没有理由去爱住在你隔壁的人，只是因为他们碰巧走进了一间房地产公司，上面列出了你隔壁的房子。
There is no reason to love the people who live next door to you, just because they happen to wander into a real estate office that listed the place next door to yours.
如果没有其他的事情，在你进一步解决问题之前，表现出你已经尝试过自己解决问题，这会让人觉得你不是一个爱抱怨的人。
If nothing else, showing that you've tried to solve the problem yourself before you take it farther makes it dear that you're not just a complainer.
在美国有这样一个流行的情景：“做一份你爱的工作，你这一辈子就没有一天像在工作。”
We have a popular scene in America which goes, "Do what you love, and you'll never work a day in your life."
但是爱没有力量是不完整的，它会让你解开二元性矛盾之锁而向上进入整合的水晶振动。
But love without strength is incomplete. It is for you to unlock the paradox of duality and shift upward into integral crystalline vibration.
我能换个方式来表达：在清凉的爱的瞬间，你感觉时间停止了；没有运动一切都停止了。
I can say it in another way: in the moments of cool love, you feel time has stopped; there is no movement — everything has stopped.
但没有数据能证实以上说法，实际上，研究显示，你需要被人爱，然后才会有爱的能力。
But there's no data to support that, and in fact, the research shows that you need to be loved before you can love.
你经常会忘记你自己没有履行的职责，而更爱先挑其他人的错误，其次才轮到自己。
Often times you forget your own roles that you did not perform. Your attitude is looking at other’s fault first before you point the accusing finger at yourself.
爱的寻觅就像深山寻宝，没有谁保你一定成功。
Seeking love is like exploring treaure inremote mountains. No one can guaranteeyour success;
由于你是没有评判并布满爱的展示，这责任就不会被感知成一种负担？
Because you do this lovingly and without judgment, this responsibility will not feel as a burden.
带着你爱的人或者喜欢的地方的照片。这样做的重要之处在于，即便你没有看见它们，你也会“看见”它们。
Have pictures of people you love or places you love, the importance of these things is that even if you don't see them, you see them.
如果你没有感觉到你是爱自己的，或者拥有健康的自尊，是采取行动改变这一现状的时候了。
If you don't feel like you love yourself or have healthy self esteem, it's time to take steps to change that.
你可以通过完成不可能的事来展现你珍惜自己的爱，没有危险与勇气，你怎知爱是值得付出的。
You can treasure your love by waging it against the rules, without dangers and courage, how do you know your love is worth loving?
我现在能理解你妻子为什么要和你离婚了。你得承认你从来没有全心全意地爱过她，而三心二意的爱比不爱更糟。
Now I can understand why your wife wants to divorce you. You must admit you've never loved her wholeheartedly and half-hearted love is worse than none.
你可能认为自己是一个很好的情人，但上帝却想让你变成一个更伟大的情人，爱的能力，爱的主宰，大多数的人从来没有学会去爱，然而你可以在这层关系里成为一个专家。
You may think you're a good lover, but God wants you to become a great lover, a skilled lover, a master lover. Yet, most people never learn how to love. You can become an expert at relationships.
小贴士：如果每个人都不喜欢你爱的那个人，要面对现实：他们可能发现了你没有发现的东西。
Tip:If every single one of your friends hates your beloved, face the fact that they probably see something you don’t.
有没有可能一个人没有任何优点，你仍能给予他这种赐予的爱，原谅他的没有，任何美，任何优点？
So can somebody lack all virtue, whatsoever, and can you still have this love of bestow and would forgive them the fact that they have no beauty or virtue...?
爱一个人却得不到对方的爱是一种痛苦，但更痛苦的是爱一个人却没有勇气让那个人知道你的感受，然后你感到遗憾。
It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel, and then regret it.
当你不知道怎样适当的向女人展现你想展现的性格特点时真的没有什么要点使你被当作个有趣、爱冒险的人。
There really is no point in being a fun, adventurous guy when youdon't know how to properly show the women that you desire those charactertraits.
爱是当某人伤害你时，而且你很生气，但你没有大声呵责，因为你知道这会伤害他的感情。
Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don't yell at them because you know it would hurt their feelings.
你可能认为自己是一个很好的情人，但上帝却想让你变成一个更伟大的情人，爱的能力，爱的主宰，大多数的人从来没有学会去爱，然而你可以在这层关系里成为一个专家。
You may think you're a good lover, but God wants you to become a great lover, a skilled lover, a master lover.Yet, most people never learn how to love.You can become an expert at relationships.
你必须承认，你从来也没有全心全意地爱过她，而半调子的爱比没有爱更坏。
You must admit you've never loved her wholeheartedly and half-hearted love is worse than none.
这或许是一种解释方法，没有伙伴之爱，就很难有成熟的爱，但伙伴之爱，并不能保证你会有或不会有成熟的爱。
That may be a way of handling it, that without peer love, you'll find it very hard to have mature love, but it's no guarantee that you would or would not.
没有事情是偶然，更不能等着“福从天降”疾病、伤害、爱、美好的遗失以及彻头彻尾的愚蠢，所有这些都是对你灵魂的考验。
Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
没有任何事能像上帝的赞歌一样让你意识到上帝的爱并且存在于你的生命中。
Nothing will make you more aware of God's love and God's presence in your life than singing His praises.
画一副画：无论你有没有艺术细胞，每个人都能画一幅简单的图画来表达你有多爱那个人——甚至只画线条小人、爱心和星星也行！
Draw a picture: it doesn't matter how artistic you are, anyone can draw a simple picture to say how much you love someone - even if it is just with stick figures and hearts and stars!
画一副画：无论你有没有艺术细胞，每个人都能画一幅简单的图画来表达你有多爱那个人——甚至只画线条小人、爱心和星星也行！
Draw a picture: it doesn't matter how artistic you are, anyone can draw a simple picture to say how much you love someone - even if it is just with stick figures and hearts and stars!
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