有许多夫妇在经历了长久的婚姻后选择分手，当我撰写一本有关这个话题的书时，我发现一句法国的老古话说得非常贴切：“当局者清，旁观者迷。

THERE’S an old French expression I found useful when I wrote a book about couples who divorced after long marriages: “I wasn’t holding the candle.”

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因此有一句关于助人的古话说得好，一切善举都要招致惩罚。

That's why there's an old expression about helping people, No good deed goes unpunished.

youdao

因此，有一句助人的古话说得好，一切善举，都要招致惩罚。

That's why there's an old expression about helping people. No good deed goes unpunished.

youdao

因此，有一句助人的古话说得好，一切善举，都要招致惩罚。

That's why there's an old expression about helping people. No good deed goes unpunished.

youdao