Maybe you used to go dancing with your ex but gave it up when you split.
也许你曾经和你的前任携手共舞，但你们关系破裂后就放弃了。
Marsha: Speaking of issues, isn't that your ex-wife?
说到麻烦，那是你的前妻吗？
You can stop by to visit your ex-boss and say hi to them or treat them coffee.
可以顺道拜访旧上司，向他问好或请他喝杯咖啡。
Avoid mutual friends who are still in contact with your ex for some time after the breakup.
在分手后一段时间回避仍然在和你的前伴侣有联系的共同朋友们。
You may bump into an old friend or old flame this week. You might even meet up with your ex.
本周你可能会无意间碰到某位老朋友或是旧情人，甚至有可能会与你的前任不期而遇。
People say: 'Oh, Ijust saw your ex-girlfriend, she looks beautiful,' or 'Oh, you're drinking.
人们会说：‘哦，我刚才看见你的前女友了，她看起来很漂亮。’
Speaking as your ex-Defense Against the Dark Arts teacher, I quite agree that you had to check.
作为你的前任黑魔法防御术课教师，我完全同意必须核查。
Don't bring up your ex on a first date, especially to tell us how you're still excellent friends.
第一次约会的时候还是不要说到前男友为妙，千万不要说你们还是好朋友之类。
So long as you're not using it to obligate your ex-wife, you are free to spend it on her, as a gift.
只要你不用它来施恩于你的前妻，你可以把它当作礼物，随意地花在她的身上。
But whenever possible, you need to remove your ex from your personal life, even if it is only temporary.
但是只要有可能的话，你都要让前任从你的私生活中消失，哪怕是暂时性这样做也可以。
If even one of the above questions is true about your friendship with your ex, then you are not friends.
在你和你前任的友谊中，如果上述问题有一个是真的，那么你们就不是朋友！
You'll probably become more desirable to your ex, because you're allowing them to think about you and miss you.
或许这段时间你的前任可能会渴望回到你身边，因为你给了他/她足够的空间想起你、思念你的好。
You don't want him to join your team because he was your ex-boyfriend. And don't try to tell me different.
你不想他加入你的小组是因为他是你的前男友。可别告诉我我说错了。
Even if you do still deeply care about your ex, with practise this will really help speed up your recovery.
即使你很在意你的前任，“我不在乎”的态度也可以帮助你快速恢复。
Just shrug and show them there's nothing you can do to stop your ex from saying such things, and then move on.
只要耸耸肩，然后告诉他们你没有什么可以去做来阻止你的前伴侣不说那样的话，然后，就此不…提。
So you get invited to your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend\\\'s wedding, and are thinking about denying the invitation.
前女友邀请你参加她的婚礼，而你开始考虑是不是该拒绝参加。
In addition, the last thing the same woman wants to hear is you telling her about the reasons that you left your ex.
另外，同样的女人都爱听的最后一件事就是你告诉她你离开你前女友的原因。
If you allow your name to remain on joint accounts with your ex-spouse, you are also responsible for the bills.
如果你的名字继续出现在你与你前配偶的共同帐户上，你就有责任偿还债务。
If you have children, you may not deny your ex access to them unless there is a court order stating that you may.
如果你有孩子，你也许不能拒绝你的前伴侣和他们接触，除非有一个称你可以那么做的法院令。
If you keep in touch with your ex-co-workers and boss, you will know when the company is looking for new employees.
如果你同自己的前任老板或者同事保持联系，你就会知道公司什么时候招新。
No matter how difficult it is, no matter what tender feelings you still have, do not express any of that to your ex.
不论有多么难，不论你还有什么柔情，不要对你的前伴侣表达出来。
Being compassionate and trying to comfort or spare your ex further pain will only make it more difficult to break away.
同情，努力安慰或者饶恕你的前伴侣得到更多的痛苦只会让分手更困难。
Love hurts, breakups hurt more, and the smell of your ex-boyfriend's old T-shirt can make you want to break down and cry.
爱让人受伤，分手更让人受伤。有时候闻到旧男友昔日T恤上的味道，就会让你一下子哭出来。
It's a fact that there's an unspoken awkwardness to defriending -- won't it show your ex that he or she still has a hold on you?
事实上，解除好友关系这种事还暗藏着某种你不愿说出口的尴尬——这是否表明你依然受到你前男/女友的钳制呢？
If he's 62 or older and you've been divorced for at least two years, you can collect this benefit even if your ex is still working.
如果他的年纪已有62岁而且你们离婚至少2年，你也可以获得这个收益，即使你的前夫仍在工作。
Avoid arguing in front of them and above all do not demonise the other side, however badly you think your ex-spouse has behaved.
避免在他们面前争吵，尤其是不要妖魔化另一方，不管你认为你的前配偶的行为恶劣到什么程度。
You should explain why you want to touch base with your ex, she says, listen to your partner's concerns, and share any correspondence.
她说，你应当解释为什么想与之联系，听听另一半的顾虑，并将你们的往来内容给对方看。
We've exchanged good wishes and all that sort of stuff to each other, but not a constant thing. I mean, do you talk to your ex-wife?
我们会祝福彼此，还会讨论一些别的事情，但我们的交流并不频繁，我想你能够理解，我的意思是，就像你，你会联系你的前妻吗？
Your future relationships are affected by a wide range of things, your connection to your ex is one of the most impactful, says Lucy.
露西说，你未来的恋情关系受到多种因素的影响，你与前任的联系是最有影响力的事情之一。
Chances are, you will see your ex again, so make sure you don't end things on such bad terms that the next meeting will be unbearable.
因为你还可能见到旧爱，所以千万不要用这么糟糕的方式来结束而让下次见面惨不忍睹。
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