But when you know exactly what you want to say, you often think about that instead of listening to what the other person is saying.
可一旦你清楚知道自己想要表达什么的时候，通常你都会护着那个想法，而非去倾听对方。
If it is a subject that you often think of in an attitude of resistance, it is really worthwhile reaching for some thoughts that feel better.
如果你以抗拒的态度常常思考的某个主题，那找到让你感觉更好的思想那就真的是有价值的。
Why do you think displacement activities are so often comfort behaviors, such as grooming?
你为什么会认为梳理打扮一类的置换活动常常是令人舒适的行为呢？
You may think it's difficult for them to sleep, but they have no such problems because giraffes don't often stop for a snooze.
你可能认为它们很难入睡，但它们没有这样的问题，因为长颈鹿不经常停下来打盹。
Often, this means a certain amount of initiative on your part in seeking out and talking to people in your classes whom you think you might like.
通常情况下，这意味着你在寻找和与班里你可能喜欢的人交谈时要有一定的主动性。
When you think of work as part of a full life and a complete experience, it becomes easier to see that success in one aspect often supports another.
当你将工作视为完整人生经历的一部分时，就会轻易地发现，在某一方面取得的成功往往对另一方面起着促进作用。
You may not think about it often, but you may learn something about yourself if you think twice.
你或许不会经常去仔细想想它，但如果你再三思考，你会对自己有所了解。
You ought to be careful about this kind of feverish cold, it often kicks back when you think you are better.
你应当对这种有发烧症状的感冒小心些，它常常在你以为好转的时候复发。
Of the many software development projects I've worked on and observed, one thing is almost a constant: The architecture you think you have is often different than what you actually have.
我在曾经从事的很多软件开发项目中观察到，软件开发中一直存在这样一种现象：您实际拥有的架构往往与想象中的不同。
People often think that alcohol helps sleep, but it actually robs you of deep sleep, which is essential for feeling well rested.
人们通常会想酒精有助于睡眠，但酒精通常会把酣睡从你那偷走，而酣睡对休息好来说是至关重要的。
When we say to our parents, children, lovers, or friends: "I love you very much" or "I care for you" or "I think of you often" or "you are my greatest gift," we choose to give life.
当我们向父母、孩子、爱人或者朋友说：“我非常爱你”，“我很在意你”，“我时常想念你”，或者“你是我最好的礼物”时，我们就选择了给予生命。
When you number use case steps, people often think you are ordering how the functionality should be achieved.
当你为用例步骤编号时，人们通常认为你正在下令应该如何完成功能。
Here are a few tips: First, think about what you want to say, not what you don't want to say, because when you try not to think or do something, it is often more likely to occur.
这里还有些小贴士：首先，思考你想说的内容，不要去想那些你不想说的。因为当你不想去想什么或者去做什么的时候，这件事反而更有可能发生。
"We think of you and the kids often," she said, "and you are in our hearts and prayers."
她说：“我们经常惦记你和孩子们，我们一直真心为你们祈祷。”
And you think of something that you often argue, climate change or something like that or I don't know.
你们认为你们经常证明，气候变化之类的东西，那是什么？
Often called a business object, you can think of such a purchase order as an important entity in the application domain.
通常称为业务对象，您可以将这类订单看作应用程序域中的一个重要实体。
It's called a "silent" heart attack, and it happens more often than you might think.
这就是所谓的“隐性”心脏病发作，它的发生率令你难以想像。
When you can't think of something to say, it's often due to shyness and inhibition interfering with your ability to think freely, and reducing these feelings is easier said than done.
当你无话可说，它往往是由于羞涩和压抑感干扰了你自由地思考，而避免这些情感说起来容易做起来难。
“We think of you and the kids often,” she said, “and you are in our hearts and prayers.
“我们经常想到你和你的孩子，”她说，“你在我们的心里和祝福中。”
They often think that as a designer, you should already know what's going to work and what won't for their website.
他们通常会认为，你作为一个设计师已经知道在他们的网站上什么行得通什么行不通。
Remember, your everyday family life holds traditions too and these often are the ones you rarely think about.
记住：你每天的家庭生活里也包含了传统，而这些传统通常都是你很少会想起的。
My dear one, then, I have wept for joy to think that you are mine, and often wonder if I deserve you.
亲爱的，想到你是属于我的，我禁不住喜极而泣，但又时常惶恐，不知自己是否配得上你。
Sometimes all you can think about is something similar, say another actor who is often in the same types of films.
有的时候你所想到的只是一些相似的事件或人物，比如在这种类型电影中经常出现的另一个演员。
Noting that “our paths have recently gone in different directions”, he told Harewood that “I often think of you with admiration and affection”.
他曾经告诉海尔伍德伯爵，“我常常对你充满敬佩和爱慕之情”，如今却说，“我们如今走上了不同的道路”。
Surprisingly enough, this rejection feeling is not always triggered by somebody else, but, more often than you think, it's an individual reaction.
令人惊讶的是，这种感觉往往不是由别人引发，更多时候是由自己想象出来的，它仅是一种心理反应。
What do you think? Are you often blown away by things that, when you think about them, you really shouldn't be blown away by?
你觉得呢？是否会经常被看起来完美弄的筋疲力尽？再认真想想，你真的不该放掉那些吗？
What do you think? Are you often blown away by things that, when you think about them, you really shouldn't be blown away by?
你觉得呢？是否会经常被看起来完美弄的筋疲力尽？再认真想想，你真的不该放掉那些吗？
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