There are no simple answers and like with the previous injunction of "Don't Say Yes, When You Mean No, " you may need to seek professional help to learn how to resolve your marital difficulties.
没有简单的答案。正如前面“不要言不由衷”所告戒的，学会如何解决婚姻难题，你可以寻找专业帮助。
I mean, just think how little noise from the outside world actually reaches you when your head is underwater.
我的意思是，只需想想当你的头在水下时，你实际能听见多小的外界噪音。
When you talk about gorilla language, do you mean like, those experiments where humans taught them sign language?
当你讲到大猩猩的语言时，你指的是像人类教它们手语的那些实验吗？
We say, "I love you" to our parents or significant other when we hang up the phone, not because we mean it, but out of habit.
我们会在挂电话时和父母或者某个重要的人说“我爱你”，不是因为我们真的想这么说，而是因为习惯。
You mean because it is live, when the performance is finished, there are no videos of it.
您的意思是，因为演出是现场直播，所以表演落幕后就没有它的录像带了。
Doesn't that mean that the first hypothesis you mentioned was wrong, the one that says we don't even perceive irrelevant information when we are concentrating?
这是不是意味着你提到的第一个假设是错误的，那个假设说我们在集中注意力的时候甚至没有察觉到不相关的信息？
I'm sorry, when you say the growth of shrubs has increased, do you mean that the shrubs are bigger, or that there are more shrubs?
不好意思，你说灌木的生长增加了，是指灌木变大了，还是变多了？
By skill, I mean the tools to handle the studying and learning demands placed on you, like how to read with purpose, when and where to get assistance if you are having difficulty.
所谓技能，我指的是应对研究和学习要求的工具，比如如何有目的地阅读，遇到困难时在何时何地能够得到帮助。
I mean, when Dortans of all the companies, embraces something as radical as MBWA, it really shows you how popular the theory has become.
我的意思是，连Dalton 这种公司都接受了激进如MBWA的东西，足以显示出这个理论的受欢迎程度。
What does it mean when you pick up the waste bottles and give them to someone else?
当你捡起废弃的瓶子并把它们送给别人时，这意味着什么？
When you received the Town Hero Award, you talked about the importance of changing the way you see things. What did you mean?
当你获得城镇英雄奖时，你谈到了改变看待事物的方式的重要性。你的意思是什么？
This can mean improved performance when you have multiple applications running against a database and many commits are requested by the applications within a very short time frame.
这意味着当您针对数据库运行多个应用程序并且在非常短的时间范围内应用程序请求大量提交时可以提高性能。
In the book, when you refer to cloud computing needing governance solutions what did you mean?
在书里，当你提到云计算需要治理解决方案时你的意思是什么？
So things get tricky when you want to find out if two documents "mean" the same thing — whether they are semantically equivalent.
因此当您想发现两个文档是否“代表”同一个事物，即是否在语义上等价时，事情就显得有点错综复杂了。
When a guy says, "not tonight," it doesn't mean he's lost interest in you.
当一个男人说“亲爱的，今晚不行”并不意味着他对你已经失去了兴趣。
I mean, didn't you ever think about them when we were together, when I was reading to you?
我指的是，难道当我们在一起时，当我为你朗读时，你就不曾想起过那些吗？
Or does leadership mean building consensus, so that when you attempt to make changes your organisation advances more or less as one?
抑或领导力意味着建立共识，在你尝试变革时，你的组织就能步调一致，共同前进？
Okay so you do know what I mean when I say you have to remove inconsistent terms then?
好，你们是说我的意思，当我说你们要去除不一致的术语然后？
I mean, when you buy a toaster, there has been some assurance provided that that toaster will not explode in your face — right?
我的意思是，如果你买了个烤面包机，就应当得到保证，这个烤面包机不会崩到你的脸，对不对？
When we say "work together," we don't necessarily mean work side by side when you develop the tests (although there wouldn't be anything wrong with doing that).
这里所说的“共同工作”并不一定意味着在开发测试时并行工作(尽管那样做也没有任何问题)。
I mean, when you get to the point of looking for more time-efficient ways to fold underwear, you might have a problem.
我的意思是，当你想法设法去寻找提高效率的方法而憋着不上厕所的时候，问题就出现了。
When the going gets tough, when the gossip gets mean, you always have one reliable escape line: “Don’t we have some work to do here?
当情况变得不妙，闲话变得刻薄时，你总是有一个脱身妙计：“我们现在难道没有工作可做了吗？”
I think it's just the qualities you look for might be a little different, but it doesn't mean when you are 25, you don't still feel antagonistic to the rest of your peers.
我觉得只是你寻找的素质可能不同了，但它不代表当你25岁的时候，你就不会觉得和你其他同伴，是敌对关系。
When you catch yourself being mean to yourself, intervene on your behalf by putting an end to the behavior (thoughts, words, or actions) immediately.
当你发现你就是你本来的自己时，立刻停止那些干涉阻碍自己的思维和言行吧。
But when you call something "Canon," you mean that there's a group of writing that has boundaries to it.
但是当你称某样东西为正典时，便是指那些有界限的书籍。
When you say bank, it can mean a financial institution, it can mean an action of an aeroplane or it can mean the side of a river.
当你说bank这个词的时候，可能意味着金融机构，可能是飞机的动作，或者可能是河岸。
In days to come, when your son asks you, 'What does this mean?'
日后，你的儿子问你说：‘这是什么意思？’
I mean, it's nice when you have it and it just works, but how does that happen?
我的意思是，有一定的规范并遵循规范确实很好，但那是怎样发生的？
But actually, when you understand what these words mean, you'll see that they are positive, freeing, enlightening, liberating, and filled with hope.
但实际上，当你明白他们的意思时，你将看见他们是正面积极的，给人自由的，发出光明的，带来释放的，满有盼望的。
But actually, when you understand what these words mean, you'll see that they are positive, freeing, enlightening, liberating, and filled with hope.
但实际上，当你明白他们的意思时，你将看见他们是正面积极的，给人自由的，发出光明的，带来释放的，满有盼望的。
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