If they do something to annoy you, it is better to discuss it in a polite way than to have an argument about it.
如果他们做了什么惹恼你的事，最好用礼貌的方式讨论，而不是争论。
Coach Graham knew there was really only one way to teach kids how to make it stronger: You give them something they can't do; they work hard until they find they can do it, and you just keep repeating.
格雷厄姆教练知道，只有一种方法可以教会孩子如何让它变得更强：你给他们做不到的事情；他们努力练习，直到发现自己可以做到，而你只需要不断地重复。
If someone hurts you in some way, or says something you do not like, what do you do?
如果某个人用某种方式伤害了你或者说了你不喜欢的话，你会怎么做？
If there's something you want to be or do, the best way to become that thing is to actually take steps toward it, to move in that direction.
如果你真正想要成为什么或是实现什么，最好的途径就是扎扎实实去做，朝着你的方向，采取切实行动。
Or do you have a vague sense that something has changed ever so slightly, but not in a good way?
你是否模糊的感觉到某些事情正在以一种不太好的方式，发生这细微的变化？
RD: Something to do with a puzzle being solved - things fall into place and you see a different way of looking at things which suddenly makes sense.
理查德·道金斯：谜题得以解决，尘埃落定之时，你会以一个完全不同的视角看待那些突然间不言自明的事物。
So motivation, in its best form, is a way for you to want to do something.
因此最好的动机要能促使你想去做某事。
Notice if you start to wish things weren't the way they are. If you wish someone else didn't do something, notice that.
如果你开始期望事情是另一个样子，期望别人不要做某件事，就要注意了。
A Groupon is also a commitment device: it's a way of forcing yourself to do something you really want to try at some point, but something you know you might otherwise never get around to.
团购同时是一种承诺工具：它会迫使你尝试那些心中觊觎、但可能永远不会去尝试的东西。
"This is a way to fulfill your life and do something you are interested in," said Zhang, a 24-year-old who translates for a team that calls themselves "Showfa."
张，今年24岁，是一名“首发影视”的翻译成员。他说：“这是一种充实生活、做自己感兴趣事情的方式。”
A "call to action" is a request to your reader, asking them to do something specific. You'll want actions that help you in some way.
“号召”是指你对读者的一种要求，要求他们做一些特别的事情。
The more promising way to success is to become the first - or among the first - to do something, and that means you should see something that other people don't.
能够成功的更有把握的方式就是成为第一个或第一批人之中做这件事情的人，这就意味着你能够看到其他人看不到的机会。
You do actually get something out of this... a great feeling that you've actually helped someone or contributed to their life in some meaningful way.
实际上，你确实可以从中获取些什么，比如说，你在帮助了他人或者给他们的生活增光添彩之后，你所感受到的美好。
If you have a creative idea about how to accomplish something faster, smarter or better than the current method, do it your way and see what happens.
比起现有方法，如果有关于如何更快、更聪明或更好地达到成功的有创意的想法，用你自己的方法解决，看看会发生什么。
To have success you have to do things the right way, but often the only way to do something right, is to first fail at it.
想要做成某些事，你一定要有正确的方法，但是想要找到这条正确的路，你首先的失败。
You do not need to read in the same way you would if you needed to memorise something.
如果是要去记忆一些内容的时候，你就不用运用相同的方法阅读。
When depression gets in the way of enjoying life or dealing with others, that's a sign you need to do something about it, like talking to a counselor or therapist who can help you deal with it.
当沮丧阻碍了你享受生活和与他人交往的时候，那是你该做点什么去处理它的时候，比如和一个顾问或者是治疗师谈话能帮你克服沮丧。
No carping from the sidelines. If your partner got the kids dressed, don't criticize the outfits. If you want something done your way, do it yourself.
千万别旁敲侧击。如果你伴侣给孩子穿衣服，那么就不要抱怨穿得不好。如果你想事情按照你的想法去做，那么你就要自己去做。
A to-do list is also a good way to battle overwhelm: you won't be worrying that you've forgotten about something vital, and you can focus on just completing one task then moving on to the next.
制作一个工作清单是战胜迷茫的好方法：你不用担心你会忘记一些至关重要的事情，并且你能够完全投入到一个任务当中之后转移到下一个任务中。
Every once in a while, you may find that the best way to maintain control of a presentation is to do something that others would consider insane.
你会经常发现，保证你对演讲主导权的最好方法就是做出一些被人认为荒谬的事情。
Let's do a straightforward example the way that you could expect it on an assignment or, if you were extraordinarily lucky you might even get something like that on an exam.
下面给个直截了当的例子，请做好心理准备作业里，可能会遇到这种题，或者说，各位如果三生有幸，考试中也会，出现类似的题目。
Sometimes you just want to put something together quickly and the way it looks or works is less important than whether it is doing what it is supposed to do.
例如，当你仅仅需要把一些东西快速的整合到一起的时候，这些东西怎么整合的就不是那么重要了。
Consider this: as soon as you say you won't do something - absolutely not, no way no how - you've put a ceiling on your life.
这样说吧：只要你说你不会做什么事——绝对不会，无论怎样都不会——那样你就限制了自己。
The only way you get skilled at something is to practice at it. You do it over and over.
然而唯一的办法就是你需要去训练这种技能，一遍又一遍。
End up where you started. It's not quite the same as the shortest path, and figure out the way to do that that involves spending the least money. Or the least time, or something else.
最后回到最初的地方，这和最短路径问题有些不同，需要找出一条花费最少，或者费时最少或者满足其它条件的路径。
If they are all beginners it's usually not worth it, since you will need to spend too much time explaining to them what to do, how to do something, why the way they are doing it is bad, etc.
如果都是新手就不值得，因为你需要花大量时间解释要做什么，怎样做，为什么他现在的做法不好，等等。
You may go do something else later on, but you'll get way more out of it, and I don't care what the starting salary is, or anything of the sort.
你以后可能去做些别的事儿，但是做它，你会收获更多。我不在乎我的起薪是多少，或诸如此类的事。
You may go do something else later on, but you'll get way more out of it, and I don't care what the starting salary is, or anything of the sort.
你以后可能去做些别的事儿，但是做它，你会收获更多。我不在乎我的起薪是多少，或诸如此类的事。
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