Many people assume that our attitudes are internally consistent, that is, the way you think and feel about someone or something predicts your behavior towards them.
许多人认为我们的态度于内在是一致的，也就是说，你对某人或某事的想法和感受决定了你对他们的行为。
Preface your remarks with something like: "I know you'll think I'm silly but in my house I don't want…"
可以这样开头：“我知道你们会认为我很傻，但在我的房子里，我不想……”
Preface your remarks with something like: 'I know you'll think I'm silly but in my house I don't want…'
可以这样开头：‘我知道你们会认为我很傻，但在我的房子里，我不想……’
Just think about the last time you used your own money to do something for someone else.
想想上次你用自己的钱为别人做事的情景吧。
When you think you are lost, sit down on a log, or a rock, or lean against a tree, and recite something that you have memorized, to bring your mind to a point where it's under control.
当你发现自己迷路时，先坐在树桩或石头上，或者靠在树上，背诵一些自己记得的东西，让大脑冷静下来。
If there's something keeping your mind wandering, allow yourself a specific (特定的) time to worry, think or plan.
如果你因为某事心不在焉，那就给自己专门腾个时间用来焦虑、思考或是做打算。
Sometimes, saying something as simple as, "I appreciate your feedback, but think it may be more effective if presented in a more constructive manner," does the trick.
说一些简单的如“感谢你的反馈，但是如果以更积极的方式表达，我想可能会更有效的”就是一种决窍。
The problem is, if you think your destiny is determined by someone or something else, you've lost all power in your life.
问题就在于，如果你认为你的命运是由某人或者某事主宰的，你就会失去生命中的力量。
If you think waving your phone to pay for something is convenient enough to convince you to go to one coffee shop versus another, imagine how thrilled people will be to simply raise their hand?
如果你认为挥挥你的手机去咖啡馆喝咖啡是非常帅的事情，想象一下另一个满脸红光的人在你身边只是简单的举了下手。
You're not as important as you think you are - cherish your opportunity to contribute and be part of something bigger than you.
你并没有你所想的那么重要——珍惜你可以贡献你的的力量的机会吧，成为比你更重要的事物的其中一部分。
Maybe,you know, besides a nice frame with a great picture of two of you in it, maybe personalize to him or something, think of things of your relationship together that have meant something to him.
你可能会用精美的相框装一张你们两人的合影送给他，或者是装他一个人的照片，等等。除此之外，你还可以想想，在一起的时候，什么东西对他来说是他用得着的。
Carolyn: Your father seems to think this kind of behavior is something to be proud of.
凯洛琳：你父亲好像觉得这种行为很让人自豪。
If you can build a business where both your employees and your customers think they're part of an idea, you've created something special.
如果你的生意能使客户和雇员都认为他们已是大想法的一分子那你就已经创造出了很特别的东西了。
Well, when you want to do something for yourself, you don't have to think about your family if you are a single.
好，当你想要只为自己做一些事情的时候，如果你是单身，你不需要考虑你的家人。
No matter if you have money, or friends, or a great job, you still probably think your life is lacking something.
不管你是否有钱，是否有朋友，或是否有期望中的工作，很可能你仍然会想到你的生活还缺少些什么。
The ultimate issue is your ability to think about and conceptualize 'something to say' and once you have done that, find the language that allows you to say it most directly and elegantly.
最终的问题在于你对“要说的东西”进行思考和概念化的能力，一旦你拥有了这种能力，那么就要找到一种语言，让你可以更直接且优美地表达出来。
It not only saves you development time, but it also forces you, as a developer, to think of a data model as something that should serve you and your application.
这样不仅节省了开发时间，而且还促使程序员去思考像数据模型这样有助于应用程序和开发工作的一些事情。
I'll bet you can think of something you wanted to do, but played it safe because your idea seemed too risky.
我敢打赌您会想起您想要做但却不敢冒险去做的一些事，这是因为您太想求稳。别人也一样。
Your ego asks for more, and you begin your blind pursuit of something you think you’re missing, putting your happiness off once again to please your ego.
你的自我会要求更多，然后你会开始追赶那些你认为遗失的东西，将已有的幸福放一边再一次的满足自我的需求。
Think of something good that happened to you recently, and how it affected your mindset. Now think of something bad that happened, and what that did to your mindset.
回想下最近发生在你身上的好事，以及它是如何影响你的心态。再回想下糟糕的事，以及它是对心情的影响。
Be sure that the common ground is something your colleague genuinely CARES about, and not something you think he should.
确保你们的共同点是你的同事所在乎的而不是你自认为他是这样想的。
Instead of browsing your font list and looking for "something cool," instead think about the message you want to convey.
不要浏览字体列表去寻找“某个很酷的东西”，相反，你应该思考一下自己想要传达的信息是什么。
The point is, you need to raise your profile so that architecture becomes something that others think of first when organizational changes are under consideration.
要点在于，您需要提高自己的姿态，以便在考虑组织变更时，体系结构成为其他人首先想到的事情。
References are something you should think about at the beginning of your interview process and not just at the end when you are under immediate pressure to provide them.
举荐人是你在面试开始之前就应该要考虑的事情，而不是在面试快接近尾声时突然被要求提供时慌慌张张的去想应该说谁。
Priming is a technique where you think about something or create some environmental cue that will alter your subsequent performance.
引导是种技巧，它能启发你思考某些事或围绕着某些暗示去创造，并改变你的后续表现。
"We think it kick-starts your metabolism because you \ \ \ \ \ \ \ 've eaten something, \ \ \" Barton said.
巴顿说：“我们认为你吃的东西会直接影响你的体形。”
Another approach is to close your eyes and think of something calming -- a loved one, a spiritual being, a beautiful sunset or a piece of music that you adore, Lantz said.
另外一种方法是闭上眼睛想象令人平静的事情 ——爱人、精神寄托、美丽的日落夕照或者你喜欢的一段音乐，莱兹说。
Another approach is to close your eyes and think of something calming -- a loved one, a spiritual being, a beautiful sunset or a piece of music that you adore, Lantz said.
另外一种方法是闭上眼睛想象令人平静的事情 ——爱人、精神寄托、美丽的日落夕照或者你喜欢的一段音乐，莱兹说。
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