Listen to your gut. (If the boat just doesn't feel right, don't talk yourself into it.)
听从你的直觉(要是那艘船感觉有哪儿别扭，别说服你自己买下它。)
When it's cold or dark outside, or you're too tired to go to the gym, it's easy to talk yourself out of running.
当天寒地冻，或是天黑时分，或是身心疲惫不想去健身房，那么就很容易让自己不去跑步。
The trick is to not think about it, if you start thinking "Should I talk to her or not?" then you will talk yourself out of it.
当你开始考虑“我是否应该和她聊天的时候”，你要远离这种想法。
The longer you take to act, the more time you have to talk yourself out of it, the longer you have to imagine the things that might go wrong.
你越久做出行动，你从恐惧中跳出来的时间将会更长，而你也会更多地去回想自己可能做错的地方。
If you haven't given the subject some thought, you may blurt out something about your boss or the company, and talk yourself right out of a job.
如果你没有好好考虑过这个问题，你可能会对你曾经的老板和公司大发牢骚，然后失去得到工作的机会。
The problem is that they're so cool that it's easy to talk yourself into buying each and every one of them and before you know it, you've replaced one form of clutter with another.
问题是，它们是如此的酷，以至于在你了解它之前就轻松的说服自己去买他们中的每一样，你在五花八门的样式中换了一款又一款。
The problem is that they"re so cool that it"s easy to talk yourself into buying each and every one of them and before you know it, you"ve replaced one form of clutter with another.
问题是，它们是如此的酷，以至于在你了解它之前就轻松的说服自己去买他们中的每一样，你在五花八门的样式中换了一款又一款。
If you find yourself searching for something to say beyond small talk, try these tactics to find more interesting approaches to conversation.
如果你发现自己在聊天之余还在寻找其余话题，尝试以下这些策略来寻找一些让聊天更有趣的方法。
Talk directly to your audience, be yourself and make a connection.
与你的听众直接交谈，做你自己，和他们建立联系。
They can also be friends and family but the biggest DreamBuster can be you, the way you talk to yourself.
这些人也许是你的朋友，或你的家人，但最大的克星是你自己，是你对自己说话的方式。
Introduce yourself to your inner child who wants to talk to you and play with you.
请你把自己介绍给你内心中的孩子吧，他正想同你交谈，想同你一起玩耍。
The person might try to talk you into staying but be firm — respect yourself and your time and the changes you’re trying to make.
那个人可能会试图说服你。但是坚定你的信念——尊重自己和自己的时间以及你想要的改变。
Don't talk too much about yourself and never brag about your job, your money, or your car because these things only communicate insecurity.
勿要过多谈论自己，永远不要夸耀你的工作、金钱、或汽车，因为这些东西只是传达出不可靠的信息。
Talk to yourself. Remind yourself of how you handled similar situations in the past, your strengths, and how long you will need to get through it.
提醒自己以前遇到类似的情况时是怎样处理的，以及需要多长时间来度过这一时期。
Instead, recognize that a woman would rather observe your actions for herself, rather than hear you talk about yourself.
相反，要认识到一个女人宁可去观察你对她的行动，而不是去听你对她说的关于你自己的话。
It's important to be a good listener and encourage the other person to talk and open up, but you also want to talk and open up yourself.
做一个优秀的聆听者并鼓励其他人畅所欲言是非常重要的，但你自己也必需要畅谈起来。
And I've found that if you talk to yourself quite loudly while walking along, other people give you a nice wide berth, too.
我还发现如果你一边走一边大声对自己说话，别人会很友好地为你让路的。
Similarly, try not to talk too much about yourself or your company at the beginning of a speech.
同样地，不要在演讲开始时过多谈论你自己和你的公司。
You don't mind letting the television talk to you; you let the media talk to you, and the news; why don't you talk to yourself!
你不介意让电视跟你谈，你让媒介、新闻跟你谈，为什么不自己跟自己谈谈！
Sometimes giving yourself a little pep talk and saying things such, "I can do this!" or "I'm staying strong" can help you through a rough patch.
有时候对自己说一些鼓劲的话，比如“我没问题”或者“我是小强”会让你渡过难关。
You'll need to collect qualitative information - read local papers, talk to people there, and go out and see for yourself.
我们将要需要收集定性的信息—阅读当地的报纸，与那里的人民交谈并且自己亲自出去看看。
You talk to yourself, in your head, all the time - but often we're not aware of these thoughts.
我们一直都是在心里和自己说话——但是却意识不到这些心声。
If you usually keep to yourself at work, and only talk to people on break, try spending time with your coworkers a little more during the workday.
如果您通常保持自己在工作中，只有跟人交谈才止，你要尝试花时间与您的同事多一点在工作。
Sell yourself but emphasis what you can do for the company, don't talk too much about yourself. Generate excitement and be positive.
推销自己，但是要强调自己可以为公司做贡献，切不可一直在讲自己，要给人一种活跃、乐观的印象。
And if you want to talk about yourself, you'll find that putting the other person first actually opens him up to return the favor and ask you questions.
如果你希望谈谈你自己，你会发现先谈论另一个人会让他开诚布公地回应你的好意并向你问问题。
You have to learn to be aware of your self-talk, the thoughts you have about yourself and what you’re doing.
您肯定已经意识到自己说话的方式，对自身的想法，以及您正在做的事情。
You have to learn to be aware of your self-talk, the thoughts you have about yourself and what you’re doing.
您肯定已经意识到自己说话的方式，对自身的想法，以及您正在做的事情。
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