Lafair confronted the employee about her passive aggressive behavior and received a wide-eyed response: she just felt sorry for the dog.
针对她的消极对抗行为，拉斐尔与她当面对质，但得到的回答却让她瞠目结舌：她说她只不过是同情这只狗。
For instance, if a passive aggressive worker promises to get you data by a specific date, confirm that commitment with the employee in front of someone who needs that data.
例如，如果有消极对抗的员工允诺会在某个日期之前提供数据，那就在需要这些数据的人面前跟这个员工确认他的承诺。
Be very specific about what's expected of him - what the rewards will be for following through with his chores and what the consequences will be when he ACTS out in passive aggressive ways.
你要把你对他的期望非常具体地告诉他——认真做完家务的奖励和消极反抗的后果。
People who have developed a false self are often passive aggressive and seem shallow because they've tucked away all the feelings that would give them depth and character.
那些建立了虚假自我的人往往表现出消极抵抗的状态，并且显得比较肤浅，因为他们将所有能拓宽深度和塑造品格的情绪都隐藏起来了。
Once you're better at experiencing anger and expressing it in a healthy way - a way that isn't passive-aggressive or an explosion of rage - you'll be able to model a good anger style for your kids.
一旦你能更好地体验愤怒并且以健康的方式发泄出来——没有消极抵抗或者大发雷霆——那么你就为你的孩子树立了一个良好的解决愤怒的榜样。
Once you're better at experiencing anger and expressing it in a healthy way - a way that isn't passive-aggressive or an explosion of rage - you'll be able to model a good anger style for your kids.
一旦你能更好地体验愤怒并且以健康的方式发泄出来——没有消极抵抗或者大发雷霆——那么你就为你的孩子树立了一个良好的解决愤怒的榜样。
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