When you deal with the problem of emotions, you should learn not only how to control them but also how to accept them and manage the guilt and anguish arising from them.
所以当你处理情绪问题时，你不仅要学会如何控制它们，还要学会如何接受它们，并应对由此产生的内疚和痛苦。
You cannot live your children's lives for them; you can only be there to pick up the pieces when things go wrong.
你不能替孩子过活，只能在出现问题时帮忙解决。
It might surprise you to learn that restaurants, as we know them, have only existed for a few centuries.
当你得知我们所知道的餐馆只存在了几个世纪，你可能会感到惊讶。
Don't shut your ears, listen to them all, but hear the fact only and do what you know is the right thing to do.
不要闭上你的耳朵，听他们所有人说，但只听取事实，做你认为是正确的事情。
You don't need to wash your jeans after having worn them only a couple of times.
你的牛仔裤只穿过几次就不需要清洗。
Coach Graham knew there was really only one way to teach kids how to make it stronger: You give them something they can't do; they work hard until they find they can do it, and you just keep repeating.
格雷厄姆教练知道，只有一种方法可以教会孩子如何让它变得更强：你给他们做不到的事情；他们努力练习，直到发现自己可以做到，而你只需要不断地重复。
After lying for hours on cold ground, with only a thin sleeping bag to protect you from rain or ice, your fingers would probably be so numb that you could hardly move them.
在冰冷的地面上躺上几个小时后，只有一个薄薄的睡袋来保护你免受冰雨侵害，你的手指可能会麻木到几乎动不了。
You can only work so many hours in a week, you can only hire so many more people, and you can only train them to create work-arounds for a limited time.
您可以在一周里只工作这么长时间，您可以只雇佣这么多人员，您可以训练他们在有限的时间创建工作区。
For this reason, we configure the portal server in a way that users can only view what you want them to view at the KISOK.
基于这个原因，在KISOK上配置门户服务器时，使用户只能够看见您希望他们看见的内容。
Have you ever lost your keys, looked for them in earnest, and couldn't find them, only to find them later when you weren't looking for them?
你是否也曾有过遗失了钥匙，急切想找到它们却无果，但当你不在去找时，反而意外地找到了它们。
Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.
再次说明的是，你在向未来展望的时候不可能将这些片断串连起来，你只能在回顾的时候串起他们。
By setting a good example for your children, you are not only giving them a good model to imitate, you are also helping them to increase their chances for survival.
通过为孩子们树立好榜样，你不仅给他们提供仿效的好典范，而且帮助他们增加生存的机会。
Spring lets you configure only the services you need and apply them to POJOs.
Spring让您可以只配置您需要的服务并将它们应用于POJO。
You can change objects and save them back to the database, but only if you are connected to a context object.
但只有在你连接到上下文对象的时候，你才可以修改对象并把它们保存回数据库。
Remember that, as a architect, you not only have to make important decisions; you must defend them too.
请记得，作为一名架构师，您不仅需要做出重要的决策，您还必须为这些决策辩护。
Don't define an association for the sake of association; do so only when you need to load them together, which should be decided by your business rules and design (please see Example 5 for details).
不要为了关联而定义关联；只在你需要一起加载它们时才这么做，这应该由你的业务规则和设计来决定(见范例5)。
You not only empower other people, you also encourage them to take on additional responsibilities and establish a bond of trust based on your vulnerability and their capability.
你不仅是在向他人授权，也是在鼓励他们承担额外的责任，在你的弱点和他们的能力之间建立起信任的纽带。
Streaming the application lets you use the features of an application only when you need them, as opposed to installing all the features that he may not use.
当您需要时，流媒体应用程序允许您使用应用程序的功能，而不是安装所有特性，因为有些功能可能不会用到。
For subsequent releases of the warehouse the training effort should be minimal because you should only need to inform them of the new data available to them.
对于仓库后继的版本来说，培训工作应该减到最小，因为您只需要告诉他们可用的新数据。
If you intend to collect any information from users (even only usernames or traffic logs), please let them know what you intend to do with that information.
一旦想要收集用户信息(即使只有用户名或流量日志)，就要告知用户您打算如何处理这些信息。
If you have family or friends in the house when you write, establish some ground rules early on and tell them to disturb you only in an emergency.
当你写作时如果有家人或朋友在场，那就提前约法三章，告诉他们除非紧急情况否则不要打扰你。
Note that with tag-class selectors, you can add them only to the tag for which you defined the class.
注意，如果使用标记类，那么只能把这些类添加到定义的相关标记中。
The network delivers them to your machine only when you need them; because the applets are so much smaller than conventional programs, they don''t take forever to download.
只有当你需要这种应用程序时，网络才把它们送到你的机器上；由于小应用程序比常规程序小得多，故下载不需很多时间。
The good news is that when you understand the origins of these differences, you not only find it easier to live with them, you can manage, appreciate, and end up cherishing them too.
好消息是当你能够理解这些差异从何而来时，你不但会发现你能更容易地跟这些差异共存，你还可以掌控，领会并最终珍视这些差异。
You are not getting a magic wand to rush out into the street with and have the world inviting you to dinner—these are connecting skills to be used only when you need them.
当你冲向大街的时候要记得你手中也没有握着根魔杖，所以不要怪全世界都没有邀请你去吃晚饭------本书所讲到的交际技巧只有当你需要它们的时候才会派上用场。
The same goes for any classes transferred over RPC; you only need to code them once and you can use them both client and server code.
跨rpc传递的任何类都适用这种情况；只需要编码一次，就可以将它们用在客户机和服务器代码中。
Mr Randriamanampisoa said there four species of tortoise "are endemic to Madagascar, so if they disappear here you will only be able to see them in zoos".
安哥洛卡象龟、蛛网陆龟、辐射陆龟和扁尾陆龟四种陆龟是马达加斯加特有的。如果它们在这里消失，你就只能到动物园才能看到了。
OK, so now you know how to form a habit — and remember, only do them one at a time — but you want to know the seven little habits.
现在大家知道怎样养成一个习惯了——记住，习惯要一个一个养——那么，那七个改变人生的习惯是什么呢？
When you try to bring perfection to difficult tasks, you will only end up avoiding them.
当你想把困难的任务做到完美，最终你只会回避这些工作。
When you try to bring perfection to difficult tasks, you will only end up avoiding them.
当你想把困难的任务做到完美，最终你只会回避这些工作。
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