It's your fault for not being prepared. Explain your feelings to your partner and make clear your need for support.

你怎么让这个发生的呢？不做好准备就是你的错。向你的伴侣说明你的感觉，明确表示你需要支持。

youdao

I didn't really explain because I didn't know how I could make myself clear that I wasn't mocking him.

我当时没有解释，因为当时不知道应该如何来说明我不是在嘲笑他。

youdao

I didn't really explain because I didn't know how I could make myself clear that I wasn't mocking him.

我当时没有解释，因为当时不知道应该如何来说明我不是在嘲笑他。

youdao