The reason talking doesn't help is down to basic biological differences between men and women, says Dr Love.
谈话起不到什么作用的根本原因在于男女之间生理上的差异，拉维博士说。
Research has found that even the way males and females respond physically to emotional stress is different, says Dr Love.
Love博士说：研究还发现男人和女人在应对情感压力时，身体反应也是不同的。
Dr Love says: 'How many women can honestly say that the response they've had to the words, "I want to talk" is: "I thought you'd never ask."
拉维博士说：“有多少女性愿意坦白地承认，她们说‘我想谈谈’时指的是‘你从来都不过问我的感受’。”
Rather than being a one-sided manifesto that lets men off the hook, Dr Love says her book is a plea for both genders to respect one another’s insecurities.
Love博士说她的书并不只是教男人如何摆脱困境的，它也教导我们怎样尊重对方的不安全感。
If you build your relationship on what you do, not what you say, Dr Love says the man in your life will feel more in tune with you, less threatened and there will be fewer issues to sort out.
如果你们的关系是建立在行动而非言语上，你身边的男人就会和你更合拍，更有安全感，你们之间也就没有那么多需要解决的问题。
"Humans should not try to avoid stress any more than they would shun food, love or exercise," said Dr. Hans Selye, the first physician to document the effects of stress on the body.
汉斯·塞尔耶是第一个记录压力对身体影响的医生，他说：“人们不应该试图逃避压力，就像他们不逃避食物、爱或锻炼。”
Conversely, if someone says to you: "if you love me, you would...," that is not love, says Dr. Northrup.
诺斯·鲁普博士说：相反地，如果有人对你说：“如果你爱我，你要…”那不是爱情。
"Let's say you love the woods, so you decide to become a forest ranger," says Dr. Potter.
“比如说你喜欢森林，因此你决定成为一名森林保护员，”波特博士说。
Dr. Neder defines true love as caring about the health well-being and happiness of another person to a greater degree than your own health well-being and happiness.
内德博士定义真爱为：照顾他/她的健康、幸福快乐，让他们达到另一个水平高度，胜于自己的健康、幸福快乐。
While working out the worm's sense of smell, Dr. Bargmann fell in love with another olfactory researcher, Richard Axel.
了解蛔虫的嗅觉后，巴格曼博士与同样研究嗅觉的理查德·阿克塞尔坠入了爱河。
While working out the worm's sense of smell, Dr. Bargmann fell in love with another olfactory researcher, Richard Axel. Dr.
了解蛔虫的嗅觉后，巴格曼博士与同样研究嗅觉的理查德·阿克塞尔坠入了爱河。
Dr. Brown said scientists believe that when you fall in love, the ventral tegmental floods the caudate with dopamine.
布朗博士说，科学家们相信，当人们坠入爱河的时候，腹侧被盖区就会使活性尾区域充满多巴胺。
Dr Warren's researchers are promising ever-more sophisticated love algorithms.
沃伦博士的研究人员许诺称，未来将开发更加复杂的爱情运算软件。
"When you carefully consider your words, thoughts and actions, and specifically how they will benefit that other person, " says Dr. Neder, "you're in love."
当你细心地考虑你的言语、思想和行为，特别是考虑他们会怎样有利于他/她。你们沐浴在爱河里了。
Dr Gooder, canon theologian at Birmingham Cathedral, said that the BBC's version would change the image of Jesus "throwing his arms out in a symbol of love".
作为伯明翰大教堂的正典神学家*，Gooder博士说BBC的版本可能会改变“伸出他的胳膊作为爱的象征”这样一个观念。
“We are literally addicted to love, ” Dr Young observes. Like the prairie voles.
“严格地讲,我们成瘾于爱情，”Young博士评述道，“就如同草原田鼠”。
True forgiveness is willingness to let go of judgments and see the situation differently. It has to do with experiencing love and joy instead of fear and hate, says Dr. Sylvest.
Sylvest博士说，真正的宽恕是愿意放弃审判，用不同的看法去对待，用爱和喜悦代替恐惧和仇恨去感化。
This is the romantic stage of love, says Dr. Neder, who warns that this is the stage when people thinks it's "the real thing."
这是爱情里的浪费阶段。 他提醒人们说这个阶段人们认为所有的都是真的。
Dr. Eisenberg emphasized that in addition to avoiding physical punishment, “children should never be threatened with a loss of love” for misbehavior.
Eisenberg博士强调，除了要避免体罚，孩子做错了事情，“决不要威胁他不被爱了”。
Dr. Acevedo expected to find only a small percentage of long-married couples still passionately in love.
Acevedo博士认为，老夫老妻并仍然十分相爱的夫妇应该占很小的比例。
Our love since has resulted in two baby girls, born when I was 39 and 41. On being an older parent, the world-renown parenting expert Dr. Vicki Panaccione eloquently sums up my own feelings.
我和大卫的爱情至今已经结晶为两个宝贝女儿，她们分别于我39岁和41岁时诞生。
Others, notably Dr. Paul Rozin at the University of Pennsylvania, argue that the beneficial effects are too small to explain the great human love of chili-spiced food.
但是宾夕法尼亚大学以研究吃辣而闻名的保罗·罗津（Paul Rozin）博士认为，仅仅以有益作用来解释人类对辣味食物的无比热爱是远远不够的。
You know you're in love when you don't want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams "- Dr." Seuss.
当你终于因为现实比梦境更美而无法入睡时，你恋爱了。
In the studies of people in love, "we didn't find activity in either," according to Dr. Fisher, an anthropologist and author of "Why we love — the Nature and Chemistry of Romantic love."
而对在谈恋爱的人的研究中，“我没有发现两者有任何活动”，费希尔博士说。
After treating an elderly monk who suffers from aches and pains and has strange dreams about chickens, Toey is approached by Dr. Toa, a young man who professes his love for her.
在治疗了一名带着伤痛和怪异的梦境的老和尚之后，Toey碰到了Toa，一名对她怀有爱意的男医生。
Although Mr Dunbar tries valiantly to enliven his story (traders are dubbed the men who love to win, one investor is called Dusseldorf’s Dr Frankenstein), the task defeats him.
尽管邓巴先生英勇地尝试着使他的故事活泼生动（交易商们被称作热爱成功的人，一个投资者被称为杜塞尔多夫的作法自弊之人），这一任务还是使他败下阵来。
Dr. Love said she and Dr. Domar decided to write the book because many people seemed to have lost sight of what it meant to be healthy.
拉芙博士告诉记者，因为感觉现在很多人越来越不清楚健康的概念，于是她决定和杜马共同撰写这本书。
Play it Connery did, and splendidly-five times in all in the 60s. from Dr, No, from Russia with Love, Goldfinger and Thunderball to You Only Live Twice.
康纳利不仅演了，而且异常精彩——六十年代有五部片子，从《否博士》到《爱在俄罗斯》，从《金手指》，《霹雳弹》到《你只有两次生命》。
"They've got checklists and lots of unromantic plans, but I think a lot of that can wait," Dr. Love notes.
洛夫博士说：“当我为了我的一本书采访夫妇们时，有很多男士都说他们也喜爱浪漫，所有的女士喜欢浪漫，但是男士们却说他们得到的并不是很多。”
"They've got checklists and lots of unromantic plans, but I think a lot of that can wait," Dr. Love notes.
洛夫博士说：“当我为了我的一本书采访夫妇们时，有很多男士都说他们也喜爱浪漫，所有的女士喜欢浪漫，但是男士们却说他们得到的并不是很多。”
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