To start a difficult conversation the right way, it's important for you and your coworker to identify something you agree on.
为了以正确的方式开始一场艰难的谈话，肯定双方之间的共同点对于你和你的同事来说是很重要的。
I can't get the thought of talking to her again out of my head, but I lack the courage to initiate a very difficult conversation.
我不能停止想要和她谈话的想法，但是我缺少发起一场艰难的谈话的勇气。
But before we get to that, let's look at what Jack and Michael's conversation can teach us about how difficult conversations work.
在我们讨论这点之前，先来看杰克和麦克的对话给我们的启示，了解不轻松的话题是如何发生的。
Still, unbidden and unwanted, tears have a tendency to well up in my eyes whenever I'm having a difficult conversation with someone.
然而，有时，每当我与某人有不愉快的会话时，眼泪就会自觉不自觉地在眼眶中打转。
Admit you recognize talking about difficult subjects can be uncomfortable, but you'd rather have a difficult conversation now, than a decaying, untruthful, less intimate relationship later.
向对方承认，谈论这些别扭的话题会让人感到不舒服，但你宁愿进行一次别扭的对话，也不愿意在以后的日子里面对每况愈下，虚伪和不再亲密的关系。
It may be a difficult conversation to have amid fast-beating hearts and fluttering eyelashes, but couples need to discuss what will happen if their financial arrangements outlast their relationship.
对于陶醉于爱人忽闪的睫毛，心砰砰乱跳的恋人来说，这种谈话很难进行。但是恋人们需要讨论一下，万一他们之间的财务关系比他们的恋爱关系更长久会怎样。
Shy people find conversation difficult; they hardly ever speak up because they're too busy worrying about the impression they're making.
害羞的人觉得交谈很困难；他们几乎从来不大声说话，因为他们太忙于顾虑自己给别人留下的印象。
Here, in brief, are a few types of listeners that make conversation difficult. Its easy to see others in these roles.
下面所列的几种听者常常让谈话难以进行，观察别人，我们很容易发现这些类型。
Physicists, though I love them, can be among the most difficult scientists to to carry on a conversation with.
物理学家，虽然我喜欢他们，但他们却可以说是科学家中最难以交流的一群人。
They said it was not clear why louder music appeared to increase alcohol consumption but said it might make conversation more difficult, forcing people to drink more and talk less.
研究人员称，目前还不清楚为什么较响的音乐会促进顾客的饮酒量，但他们说这可能是因为在太吵的环境里交谈比较困难，所以客人们只能多喝酒少说话。
"It's difficult to have a productive conversation when everyone is working from different facts," Mulley says. "We need better data and more research."
“当人们从不同的事实角度出发时，很难富有成效地去讨论，”马利认为，“我们需要更好的数据，进行更多的研究。”
Anyhow, it's difficult to always avoid conversation landmines so be sensible, watch your steps and try not to open a can of worms.
不管怎样，在谈话中往往难免触雷，所以头脑要清醒些，行事要注意些，尽量不要触及那些忌讳的话题。
If you are having a conversation with a difficult person and you just want it to end, repeat some unimportant words over and over.
假如你正和一个难打交道的人交谈，而你非常想结束它，那你就重复说一些无关紧要的话。
It was supposed to engender difficult questions and to keep the conversation at a low temperature.
仿佛她会提出各种深奥的问题，使谈话始终保持在低温状态。
Precise language is important, and that importance is amplified when the conversation is a difficult one like when an employee needs to express disappointment to his or her supervisor.
精准的语言非常重要，尤其当交谈比较困难的时候(比如员工想要给老板表达自己的不满)，那么它的作用就放大了。
Practice saying tongue twisters. If you work on phrases that are difficult to pronounce, you may find it easier to speak clearly in everyday conversation.
练习绕口令。如果你在比较难发音的绕口令上下点功夫，你会发现每天的日常对话会简单很多。
I think good photographers are also able to disarm people through conversation, but still, it's difficult to have a disarming conversation with somebody you don't know, or to make them laugh.
我认为一个好的摄影师应该学会通过交谈来解除人的戒备。但是，要同一个不认识的人进行轻松的对话或者取悦他们也比较难。
The researchers said the reason was not clear yet but said it might make conversation more difficult , forcing people to drink more and talk less.
其原因尚不清楚，研究者认为可能是音乐太吵致使交谈困难，只能多喝酒少说话。
Simply keeping up a conversation with a new person is difficult, and you leave the conversation feeling drained.
甚至就是简单地和新朋友交流都觉得有些困难，离开之后也会觉得精疲力竭。
It will not be difficult to do this, even if you are engaged in conversation, or otherwise occupied at the time.
即使在与人交谈，或正忙着其它的事情，也不难做到这一点。
My last conversation with him in London was one of the most difficult moments I have had to live.
他不希望我离开。我在伦敦最后一次和他交谈中，这是我所经历过的最为困难的时刻。
Jiang Chen's WeChat (Weixin) conversation keeps updating with new messages and he finds it difficult to stop playing games on his computer.
姜晨（音译）的微信一直不停弹出新消息，他发现自己这会儿对电脑游戏已欲罢不能。
With our busy schedules, it is difficult to find sufficient time to spend with one another in meaningful conversation.
在繁忙的日程，很难找到足够的时间陪伴一个有意义的谈话另一个。
It is very difficult to hold a 'conversation' in a forum setting and the forums are not the appropriate place for starting topics unrelated to support issues.
论坛不是聊天室：在论坛设置上承载一个'聊天'得困难，而且论坛也不是开始一个与支持话题无关的话题的合适的地方。
The forums are not chat rooms: It is very difficult to hold a 'conversation' in a forum setting and the forums are not the appropriate place for starting topics unrelated to support issues.
论坛不是聊天室：在论坛设置上承载一个'聊天'得困难，而且论坛也不是开始一个与支持话题无关的话题的合适的地方。
They said it was not clear why louder music appeared to increase alcohol consumption but said it might make conversation more difficult, forcing people to drink more and talk less.
他们称，目前尚不清楚为什么响亮的音乐仿佛增加酒精的消费；但是表示，它可能使得交谈更加困难，迫使人们喝得更多，谈得更少。
They said it was not clear why louder music appeared to increase alcohol consumption but said it might make conversation more difficult, forcing people to drink more and talk less.
他们称，目前尚不清楚为什么响亮的音乐仿佛增加酒精的消费；但是表示，它可能使得交谈更加困难，迫使人们喝得更多，谈得更少。
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