Next time you talk with someone who takes a stand, ask them to give you a reason for their view.
下回当你和有立场的人交谈时，请让他们为自己的观点提供依据。
He goes on to disclose the strict guidelines around the employee sales: "You may buy gifts for someone, but they track each item, and if your gift ends up online they know who to ask."
他接着透露了针对员工销售的严格规定：“你可以为某人买礼物，但他们会跟踪每一件物品，如果你的礼物最终出现在网上，他们知道应该去询问谁。”
Imagine you are pouring your heat out to someone and they are just busy on their phone, and if you ask for their attention you get the response—I can multitask.
想象一下，你正向某人吐露心声，而他们正忙着打电话，如果你要求他们注意，你会得到这样的答复——我可以一心多用。
In the end, I usually managed to swallow my pride and ask someone at the stop for help.
最后，我通常会不顾面子，在车站向别人求助。
If you are someone who loves to show physical affection, you should not be afraid to show it or drastically change your behaviors—just ask for consent beforehand!
如果你是一个喜欢表现身体亲近的人，你不应该害怕表现出来，或者彻底改变你的行为——只要事先征得对方允许就好了！
Before you ask someone for help, find out whether he is the right person for your problem.
在你向别人寻求帮助之前，看看他是否是你解决你问题的合适人选。
You should ask someone to read this for you.
你应该找个人帮你读一下。
Then, ask them to spread the word and do three kind things for someone else.
然后，请他们把消息传播出去，为别人做三件好事。
For example, if you ask someone how they turn their bicycle to the left, they'll tell you they simply turn the handlebars to the left and the bike turns.
例如，如果您问别人他们怎样转到自行车的左边去，他们会告诉您仅仅将车把转到左边自行车就自然而然地转到左边了。
It doesn't just happen in the boardroom, or when we ask our boss for a raise or down at the market, it happens every time we want to reach an agreement with someone.
它不仅仅发生在证券交易所，你要求老板给自己加薪的时候，或是在市场上。 它发生在每一次我们试图和别人达成一项协议的场合中。
The best way to come up with startup ideas is to ask yourself the question: what do you wish someone would make for you?
如何寻找创业点子呢？最好的办法就是问自己这样一个问题：你想让别人为你做什么？
For example, if someone says, "I want to be a doctor," instead of asking why they want to be a doctor, ask them what kind of doctor they want to be.
例如，如果某个人说：“我想当一个医生”，别去问他为什么他想当一个医生，你可以问他想成为哪一种类的医生。
They listen, acknowledge its importance, then ask about the best way to close a deal when meeting someone for the first time.
他们倾听并且承认这个原则的重要性，接着依然询问我第一次遇到别人就跟对方达成一个意向的最好方法。
I'm waiting for someone to ask Steve what he thought of the LeBron James decision.
我期待有人问乔布斯关于勒布朗·詹姆斯转会的问题。
That's the key though, you have to be willing to help someone and not too proud to ask them for help when you need it.
关键是，你是乐意帮助别人，而在需要帮助的时候，放下骄傲请求别人的善意。
And while you're at it, you should ask someone to brief you on the movement for distributed social networking standards.
虽然你很忙，但你应该让别人向你简单介绍社交网络的标准。
You have an elegy here, a beautiful and plangent lament for something or someone lost. And we have to ask ourselves, "Could this be a paradise lost?"
它变成了挽歌，一首优美的如泣如诉的挽歌，因为某些东西或某些人消失了，我们不得不问自己，这就是失乐园吗。
Someone might ask, “Why make yogurt?” for the same reason one might ask, “Why knit a sweater?”
有些人可能会问：“为什么要制作酸奶？”出于同样的理由，也有人会问：“问什么要打毛衣？”
The way you find a mentor is simply to look for someone who resonates with you, or someone that is already doing what you want to do, then ask them!
你找到良师益友的方法是寻找与你产生共鸣的人，或者是已经有人做了你想做的事，然后向他们请教！
You can choose to forgive someone who has wronged you even if they do not deserve or ask for forgiveness.
你可以选择原谅伤害过你的人即使他不值得原谅或者他没有要求得到原谅。
I urge you to ask this of yourself, every time you find yourself blaming someone else for a problem: How could I have acted differently to prevent this problem?
我力劝大家在每一次遇到问题却责备别人时，都来扪心自问一下“我该采取什么样不同的行动才能避免同样的问题产生？”
Whatever happens in life your family remains your family and if you have them around you then you should be thankful for that - just ask someone who has lost family members.
无论在你生活中发生了什么，你的家人始终是你的家人。如果他们在你周围，你应该为此而感恩——去问问那些失去了亲人的人。
The comparison gets a little more useful when we look at specific skills that someone using a proprietary solution might ask for, and those sought by companies choosing open source technologies.
当我们着眼于使用专有解决方案者可能要求的专门技能，与选择开源技术的公司所寻觅的技能，这种比较得到有益的结果会多一些。
There's no rule that says you politely have to wait for someone to directly address you and ask your opinion on something.
并没有规定说，你必须礼貌地等待，直到有人来点你的名问你对某事的意见。
When not sleeping well for a period of time, ask someone else to drive you to work, if you can.
如果你一段时间都没有睡好，那么，如果可以的话，请求别人送你去上班。
Goldsmith suggests looking for someone you respect who has accomplished goals similar to yours and ask her to mentor you.
戈德史密斯建议找一个你尊敬的人。他已经达成了和你相似的目标，所以请他指导你。
If you want to follow the rules of dating to meet someone new, its time to stop making snap decisions about the people who ask you out for a date.
如果你想按照这些约会规则去和新朋友约会的话，那么就是时候不要再对向你提出约会的人挑三拣四了。
But now, looking up and down at the state of the NBA, we have to ask: Can the Clippers sustain themselves if someone like Griffin has the power to flee for Oklahoma City once he has the chance?
但是现在环顾NBA的现状，我们不禁要问：如果格里芬将来有机会投奔雷霆去会追求自己的大场面，快船还能维持自己的现状吗？
But now, looking up and down at the state of the NBA, we have to ask: Can the Clippers sustain themselves if someone like Griffin has the power to flee for Oklahoma City once he has the chance?
但是现在环顾NBA的现状，我们不禁要问：如果格里芬将来有机会投奔雷霆去会追求自己的大场面，快船还能维持自己的现状吗？
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