Positive compliments and constructive criticisms (this shouldn’t be likened to negative talks about your person) shouldn’t be ignored at all.
积极的赞美和建设性的批评（这不应该被比作是关于自己的消极评价）都不能被忽视。
When you meet someone for the first time, by the time you have stated your name or shaken hands, the other person has already formed an opinion about the kind of person you are.
当你第一次与某人见面时，当你说出你的名字或和对方握手时，对方已经对你是什么样的人形成了看法。
Before you share your thoughts, think about what the powerful person cares about—it may be the credibility of their team or getting a project done on time.
在你分享你的想法之前，想想有权有势的人关心的是什么——可能是他们团队的信誉，或是按时完成项目。
Learn about each person on your team.
了解你团队中的每一个人。
Unlike the real world, however, your knowledge about a person is limited to words on a computer screen.
但是不同于真实世界的是，你对一个人的认知只限于电脑荧幕上的文字。
If it's a relationship, you might have to talk to the person about her behavior or make changes to your environment.
如果是人际关系的问题，你可能需要同某人谈谈她的行为或针对你的环境做出一些改变。
In other words you attack might be a correct attack, you're not saying something false about this person but the truth of what your saying has no barrier at all to what he is saying, that's a fallacy.
换言之，你的攻击可能是个正确的攻击，对于这个人你们没说错，但是你们说的真理没有边界，关于他所说的，是个谬论。
Providing regular updates about your work and properly managing the expectations of the person waiting on your work can go a long way toward helping you meet deadlines.
定时提供你工作进程的更新，恰当的控制别人对你工作的期望，这些对帮你按期完成工作很有用。
What do your instincts tell you about the situation and about the person… both in the past, present, and future?
你的直觉对形势和特定个人的理解如何？过去、现在、还有将来？
If you sense the person has reservations about your style, ask what the ideal candidate for this job would be like.
假使你觉得他对你的风格不太欣赏，问问他理想中的人选是什么样子的。
These can range from simple historical or functional details about a person or company, to encyclopedic information about some project or aspect of your world.
这些信息可能是关于一个人或者公司的一些简单的过去或者实用的细节，也可能是一些项目或者自身的一些广博繁杂的信息。
How do we explain the fact that the person who's conducting the seance knows things about, your history that only your dead uncle would know?
我们怎么解释通灵的那个人，好像真的知道，只有你死去的叔叔才知道的故事？
Trust your own instincts – if you don’t feel good about a person, keep your child away from that person.
相信你的直觉 ，如你感觉某人不对，就让孩子远离此人。
When you're in love, you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete.
当你们坠入爱河时，就始终想要呆在一起。而当你们不在一起时，就会想着呆在一起的情景，因为你需要那个人，如果没有对方你的生活就是不完整的。
If not, is there a parent or a trusted person who could take care of your sick child as long as you go about your emergency?
反之，假如你的工作出现什么紧急状况，你是否有长辈或是可信任的朋友帮你照顾生病的孩子？
If the person who wronged you really CARES about you they'll have beaten themselves up sufficiently before asking for your forgiveness.
如果一个真正关心你的人让你受到了不公正的对待，在请求你的原谅之前，他就已经会自责不已了。
If you are really serious about finding the person of your dreams, go out and look for him or her.
假如你真的想找到自己的梦中情人，那么，就到外面找乐子，同时找目标。
In the case of meeting an exploitative person, remember that it is about their karma, not your worth.
如果遇到不怀好意的人，要记住，这是那些人的业障，而不是你应得的报应。
So when you're pissed off about your grade, the person to take it up with... well, take it up with them.
所以如果你因为你的分数想要发脾气，你要找的人。,恩，你要找的人是他们。
The best is to give a vent to your feelings. Speak as much as possible to people who are empathetic. Talk about the loved person who passed away. Cry your heart out.
最好你要充分宣泄你的感情，尽可能多与善解人意的人们交流思想，要谈到你那位已经离去的心爱人，要把你心里的悲伤哭出声来。
Think about it: if you believe someone is out to get your job, how likely are you to be conciliatory with that person about any subject and in any setting?
设想一下：如果你认为这些人就是来抢你饭碗的，你怎么可能和这些人在同一屋檐下进行协作？
One of the ways it increases your relationship stability is by providing "reassurance" to the other person about your commitment to him/her.
其中一个可以增进你们的关系的稳定的方式是安慰她/他你会负责的，让对方放心。
In a journal: Keeping a journal is easy.All you need is a notebook and a pen and write your feelings about the person.
日记：坚持写日记并不难，你只需要一个本子和一支笔记录下你对那个人的感觉就好。
In a journal: Keeping a journal is easy. All you need is a notebook and a pen and write your feelings about the person.
日记：坚持写日记并不难，你只需要一个本子和一支笔记录下你对那个人的感觉就好。
A recruiter may choose to contact one of your connections to ask about you; make sure that person is someone you know and trust.
招聘方很可能会找你的某位好友来打听你的情况，所以要确保这个好友是你认识而且信得过的。
Say positive things about yourself and talk about your strengths without confronting the person in a way that might make things worse.
说说你的优点，谈谈你的实力。在和对方对峙时，避免用只会使事情变更糟的反击方式。
When you change your mind radically about some person or thing, you enter into a period of cognitive dissonance between your present beliefs and your earlier beliefs.
当一个人根本性地转变对某人某事的看法时，就会面临一个前后观念间的认知失调时期。
If you're a reactive type of person and are tired of feeling crappy, try focusing your attention instead on things you can actually do something about.
如果你是一个消极被动的人，却疲于自己沮丧的情绪，请试着将你的注意力转移到你真正可以做的事情上去。
Dr. Neder defines true love as caring about the health well-being and happiness of another person to a greater degree than your own health well-being and happiness.
内德博士定义真爱为：照顾他/她的健康、幸福快乐，让他们达到另一个水平高度，胜于自己的健康、幸福快乐。
Your Wall Street credentials and private jet may have been relevant info online, but boasting about your bank account in person is hardly attractive.
你在华尔街的股票认购书和私人飞机也许在网上还查得到相关信息，但是吹嘘你的银行帐户是不明智的，并不会让你有吸引力。
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