但朗的回答却给了我一个启示:当我们思索幸福时,我们通常想到的是一些非同寻常的事,纯粹的快乐极致——但是随着我们年纪越来越大,那些极端的快乐好像越来越少了。
But Lan’s answer reminded me that when we think about .... happiness, we usually think of something extraordinary, a pinnacle of sheer delight---and those pinnacles seem to get rarer the older we get.
所以,在那个通常充满快乐,到处是铃声,到处都是穿着晚礼服的人的时刻到对我们来说这儿,完全是另一种情况。
And so, that time that is usually supposed to be a time of merriment and ringing of bells and wearing of ball gowns, but in our case was very different.
人即关系是最重要的可以改善我们快乐的外部因素,通常,我们不快乐的最根源是因为与别人的不良好的人际关系。
This is the most important of all the external conditions that can improve your happiness quotient. Often our deepest sources of unhappiness are found in poor relationships with others.
快乐是我们每一个人类与生俱来的权力,可是通常人们会认定快乐只是在一个特定环境条件下才会发生的。
Happiness is the right of every human being, but too often we think that it is predicated only by circumstances.
快乐是我们每一个人类与生俱来的权力,可是通常人们会认定快乐只是在一个特定环境条件下才会发生的。
Happiness is the right of every human being, but too often we think that it is predicated only by circumstances.
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