当你年长的亲戚需要进入某种长期的护理机构时——这时父母或子女都害怕处理这个问题——你要做的是弄清楚所有事情。
When your elderly relative needs to enter some sort of long-term care facility—a moment few parents or children approach without fear—what you would like is to have everything made clear.
假设你和一些朋友坐在一起玩电子游戏，这时有人提到了你最喜欢的其中一个游戏。
Say you're sitting around with some friends playing video games and someone mentions a game that happens to be one of your favorites.
“你的想象力帮助你看到云中的那些形状。”托马斯回答说，这时马变成了一只鸡。
"Your imagination helps you see those shapes in the clouds," Mr. Thomas answered as the horse changed into a chicken.
这时，一头狮子过来对吉娜说：“吉娜，我需要你的帮助！我的孩子爬上了树。你能把他带下来吗？”
At that moment, a lion came and said to Jina, "Jina, I need your help! My kid has climbed up a tree. Will you bring him down?"
我敢打赌，这时你觉得吃的东西比节食前好吃一千倍。
I'm willing to bet it would taste a thousand times yummier after dieting than before.
这可能是最早的阶段，这时候你要做的只是建立一个可以上传到服务器上的网站，来展示你的想法。
This is the earliest possible phase, when all you need is to build a website that can be uploaded to your server and that demonstrates your idea.
这时你应该先休息一会儿，找一个新视角来审看文本，这无疑对提高你的工作质量大有裨益。
You should take a break and look at the text with a new perspective, which will allow you to improve your work.
这时你的工作就是让人们能够冷静、容易并且清楚的知道事实，以及预期的前进方向。
Then your job is to let people know coolly, simply and unambiguously what the facts are, the way forwards and what's expected.
那么这时候你的婴儿需要一些转喝一些由麦片粥，水果或者蔬菜做成的软质食品。
This will be the time your baby needs some soft food from cereal, fruits or vegetables.
这些都很好，但这不是说，你可以停下脚步休息了(因为这时你的主导行星金星逆行)。
All that stuff (above) is great, but that doesn't allow you to "stop" and put your feet up... (not with your ruling planet Venus retrograde)...
这时，你如果给他一点糖，或一块蛋糕，你的婴儿就会愿意继续吃一点你那乏味的食品。
Then he receives a tiny piece of candy or cake and instantly the baby will be willing to eat more baby food.
这时你的伴侣问你在想什么，你会告诉他们吗？
At that moment your spouse asks you what you're thinking, do you tell them?
当然，如果你发现一个你不认识的机器登录到你的账号，那这时就可以修改你的密码。
Of course, if you see a connection from a machine that you don't recognize, it's time to change your password.
这时你的体力储备跌入低谷，许多研究证明午休能提高效率。
This is when your energy reserves are at there lowest, and many research studies prove that naps increase productivity.
开始意识到什么时候你的肌肉开始拉紧变的紧绷了，这时候，你只要去放松他们。
Start noticing when your muscles are tightening and getting tense, and when they do, just relax them.
如果你是普通人，随着年龄的增长，体重也会增加，这时候你的世界就会变小。
If you are like many people, over the years that you've gained weight, your world has gotten a bit smaller.
这时候最好的解决方法莫过于：调整你的风帆，不要试着改变风向。
The best way to combat this is found in this phrase: Rather than trying to adjust the wind, adjust your sails.
这时你的身体需要放松，所以适当的时候就休息一下，给身体充充电。
This a when your body needs a lot more rest & relaxation, so give yourself a break & know when it's time to kick back & rest & allow your internal batteries to re-charge...
你对一个小话题提出了你的看法，这时有人恭敬有礼地向你提出了反对意见。
You give your opinion on a minor topic, and someone disagrees politely and respectfully.
这时，你要放慢行动，多关注感应到的情感，因为你能在这时有重要的领悟。
This is when you need to be slow to take action, but to pay close attention to the "feelings & vibes" you might pick up... Important insights can be gained at this time.
当你的朋友抓着你的手并且将你指向另一个方向时，因为他们实际上是在那个方向。这时，你才记得，你是瞎的。
When your friends grab you and point you in the other direction because they are actually over there, that is when you remember you're blind.
如果你有勇气做一些幼稚的事情并能享受它，这时你便有了信心。
If you have the courage to do something juvenile and enjoy it, you know you have confidence.
这种行为很大程度上，放慢了你的阅读速度，因此，当你要学习快速阅读时，这时你首先要解决的难题。
A behavior like this slows down your reading significantly, so it's the first thing to go when you're learning to speed read.
‘就在眼下这时候’，医生对你父亲说，‘你的心脏在那儿被脂肪包住了，在那儿也全是脂肪；这块地方还空着，’医生说。
'" at the present moment, "he says to your father," your heart is enclosed all round there, and all round there; this space is still open, "' a says.
等到工作的时候，你已经早早的感到疲惫了——这时候你的上司把一个“紧急”任务放在你的桌面上。
By the time you get to work, you're already feeling frazzled - and then your boss dumps an "urgent" project on your desk.
当有人问你做什么的时候，你的第一反应是拒绝，这时暂停一下，问问自己，“我这么说是否只是因为害怕？
When somebody asks you to do something and your gut reaction is “no”, pause to examine that “no” and ask yourself, “Am I saying this simply out of fear?
如果你总是独自吃午餐的话，很容易切断你的重要的传播途径，而这时一个常见的新任经理犯的错误。
It's easy to cut yourself off from a vital pipeline if you always eat lunch alone, a common rookie mistake.
或者，可能你的配偶还没有任何退休的打算，这时，如果你希望与对方共度时光的话，可能会造成关系紧张。
Or perhaps your spouse has no intention of retiring, which can cause tension if you assumed you'd spend all your time together.
如果你的痛苦在你挚爱的人死后很长一段时间内都不能消除，这时你可能就需要去寻求帮助。
If your grief isn't letting up for a while after the death of your loved one, you may want to reach out for help.
如果你的痛苦在你挚爱的人死后很长一段时间内都不能消除，这时你可能就需要去寻求帮助。
If your grief isn't letting up for a while after the death of your loved one, you may want to reach out for help.
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