你可能已经说服你自己那20磅额外的重量让你“逗人喜爱”,不管你穿多少件毛衣或穿多少层衣服,你还是胖。
You may have convinced yourselves that those 20 extra pounds make you "cuddly", but no matter how many sweaters or layers you pile on, you're still fat.
听从你的直觉(要是那艘船感觉有哪儿别扭,别说服你自己买下它。)
Listen to your gut. (If the boat just doesn't feel right, don't talk yourself into it.)
你变得越自信,就越不需要说服你自己、确认你拥有的一切,也不需要掩饰自己的不足。
The more confident you become, the less you will need to convince yourself and others of your assets, and the less you will need to cover up your deficits.
如果将这个范围划分为10个区间,你发现自己处于第7位,那么试图说服处于第1位的人就没有什么意义了。
If you divide this spectrum into 10 units and you find yourself at Position 7, then there is little sense in trying to convince someone at Position 1.
它们通过削弱您对自己智力的信任,逐渐说服你把信任放在某个外部实体上。
They operate by eroding your trust in your own intellect, gradually convincing you to put your trust into some external entity.
这将帮助你说服自己其实一直都有有利的结果在发生,让你更容易开始采取行动。
This will help you convince yourself that favourable outcomes actually happen all the time, making it easier to begin taking action.
大多数老师鼓励学生举自己的例子,因为这些例子更容易讲述,对读者更有说服力,但是即使没有这些例子你仍然可以获得高分。
Most teachers encourage personal examples because they are easier to tell and more persuasive to the reader, but you can still score high without them.
“整个诱导过程如此漫长,你会真的说服自己,相信那些讲不通的事情中有一些是真的,”哈吉斯说。
“The process of induction is so long and slow that you really do convince yourself of the truth of some of these things that don't make sense,” Haggis told me.
如果你说热爱自己的工作,而你的行动正好相反,你认为哪个更有说服力呢——言语还是行动?
If you say you love your job, but your actions say otherwise, which do you think is more true -your words or your actions?
你太过高估了自己的说服力。
你太过高估了自己的说服力。
当你非常需要买一样东西的时候,并且你说服自己它是有需要的,那试着买二手的代替新的。
When you get the urge to buy something, and you’re convinced that it’s needed, try finding it used instead of new.
他们通过侵蚀你对自己才智的信任来运作,逐渐说服你把信任寄托在某种外部实体上,比如一个神、引人注目的雕像或者一本厚书。
They operate by eroding your trust in your own intellect, gradually convincing you to put your trust into some external entity, such as a deity, prominent figure, or great book.
你需要通过说服他们你有他们所需的知识,技巧和经验来把自己卖出去。
You need to sell yourself to the employer by convincing them that you have the knowledge, skills, and experience they need.
这就是为什么深信你改变生活的信念并且说服自己目标真的值得去做是很重要的原因。
That is why it is important to feed your conviction to improve your life and convince yourself that your goals are really worth it.
不要把他们看成对你做出评价的讲师,相反,也许你可以说服自己,他们都是排在你后面准备演讲的同学。
Instead of seeing them as lecturers who are evaluating you, maybe you can convince yourself that they are all fellow students who are in queue to present after you.
有时候她们就是凭借自己是女性而说服受害者保持沉默(“谁会相信你呢?”)
Sometimes women used the very fact they were female to dissuade the victim from "telling" ("who would believe you?").
那个时候,除了把自己看成是一个消费者外,你可能会说服自己这辆车实在是太酷了。
In that time, in addition to seeing yourself as a customer already, you might also convince yourself the car is a fantastic purchase.
你甚至会在你了解的事情上感到迟疑;表现出来但不要太声张,你想要说服别人就必须相信自己。
Even where you are sure, seem rather doubtful; represent, but do not pronounce, and if you would convince others, seem open to conviction yourself.
如果你都不能说服自己为什么他们要听你所讲的——那还是不要讲的好?
And if you can't find a reason why they should listen - don't give the presentation!
那个人可能会试图说服你。但是坚定你的信念——尊重自己和自己的时间以及你想要的改变。
The person might try to talk you into staying but be firm — respect yourself and your time and the changes you’re trying to make.
你对空缺的职位很好奇,但是你能够想出一百种理由说服自己为什么应该坚守现在的角色。
You're curious about that job opening, but you can think of a hundred reasons why you should stick with your current gig.
虽然你不知道相机的脉冲模式闪存如何运转,但你会说服自己以防万一还是购买这个额外的东西。
You don't even know how a camera's burst-mode flash works, but you persuade yourself to pay for the extra feature just in case.
一旦你能够成功的说服内容拥有者,他们不能把他们自己的偏好投射到目标用户上,你就只剩下了一个问题需要解决:你如何判断可用性?
Once you've successfully argued that content owners can't project their own preferences onto the target audience, you're left with a question: How should you judge usability?
问题是,它们是如此的酷,以至于在你了解它之前就轻松的说服自己去买他们中的每一样,你在五花八门的样式中换了一款又一款。
The problem is that they're so cool that it's easy to talk yourself into buying each and every one of them and before you know it, you've replaced one form of clutter with another.
史密斯说,尽管你不能说服你的丈夫去接受治疗,你可以调整自己的心态。
Even if you can't get your mate on board for therapy, you can adjust your mind-set, says Smith.
你要使你的简历主要以积极和富有说服力得方式来反映自己。
You want to focus your résumé to reflect yourself in the most positive, powerful ways possible.
你比任何应征者都了解自己,所以不要让别人说服你做去对你感觉没把握的事情。
You know who you are better than any recruiter, so don't let someone convince you to take something you don't feel certain about.
你比任何应征者都了解自己,所以不要让别人说服你做去对你感觉没把握的事情。
You know who you are better than any recruiter, so don't let someone convince you to take something you don't feel certain about.
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