也许作为完美主义者的家长，我学会的最重要的一点就是对她的付出和努力大加赞赏，而不是把表扬集中到结果上。
Perhaps the most important thing I've learned about parenting my perfectionist is to gush over her hard work and efforts, rather than to focus my praise on outcomes and results.
她发现因为努力被表扬的孩子比因为聪明被表扬的孩子在考试中表现得更好，更愿意承担困难的任务。
She found that kids praised for"trying hard" did better on testes and were more likely totake ondifficult assignments than those praised for being"smart".
她发现因为努力被表扬的孩子比因为聪明被表扬的孩子在考试中表现得更好，更愿意承担困难的任务。
She found that kids praised for "trying hard" did better on tests and were more likely to take on difficult assignments than those praised for being "smart".
她不喜欢聚光灯，但是必须对她为确保我照顾好自己和避免受太多工作的困扰所做得努力进行表扬。
She doesn't like the spotlight, but have to give her credit for making sure I take care of myself and keeping from obsessing too much over my work.
她不喜欢聚光灯，但是必须对她为确保我照顾好自己和避免受太多工作的困扰所做得努力进行表扬。
She doesn't like the spotlight, but have to give her credit for making sure I take care of myself and keeping from obsessing too much over my work.
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