关于人性的原话是这样写的:“犯错是人的行为,而宽恕是神的事情。”
The original quote about human nature went like this: "To err is human, to forgive, divine."
我们为了爱而宽恕,只是有时候被一些事情绊住了脚。
We forgive for the sake of love; we just sometimes get stuck on the way there.
因为由此,我给父母各自和我自己带来平静。而宽恕的价值也更深植我心。
By doing so, I have brought peace to my parents and myself, and the value of forgiveness is further reinforced in my mind.
这提供给人类一个对生命之舞有更广泛的体察,不同于极度正确和错误,而宽恕也就可能诞生。
This offers humanity a broader perspective of the dance of life other than extreme right and wrong and the possibility of forgiveness to be born.
往往你会发觉,如果你允许自己真正去经历那些感觉,火气就不再那么大,而宽恕也变得容易了。
Often you will find that if you allow yourself to really experience these feelings, the anger isn't as strong anymore and forgiving comes easier.
你已经允许让你生气的那个人控制你的生活,因为你的反应,是你弱点的表现,而宽恕,是一种基督力量的姿态。
You have allowed the person you're angry at to gain control of your life because you are reacting, which is a position of weakness, as opposed to forgiving, which is a position of Christlike strength.
而宽恕只是为了让自己的内心平静,别人在过去做过什么是你无法控制的,但是你现在在做什么是完全可以由自己来把握的。
Forgiving is for you, for your inner peace. You cannot control what someone did in the past, but you can examine what you are doing right now.
宽恕是充满风度和仁慈的行为,而不是未能脱罪的人所作的补偿。
Forgiveness is an act of grace and mercy, which does not free the guilty person from consequences.
即使我已经对自己行为感到羞愧并且觉得应对此负责,而别人会因为我的自我宽恕而认为我根本未对此事负责么?
Will others think I am not holding myself accountable if I act as if I deserve self forgiveness even if I have done things to be ashamed of and should be held accountable for?
我不是那么关心于此。我不是试图写一个宽恕的礼仪。每个人都面对独特的环境,都应该依其环境本身而加以深思熟虑的对待。
I'm not trying to write a forgiveness protocol. Everyone is faced with unique circumstances that deserve to be considered as such.
而当家长们宽恕杀害他们孩子的凶手时,学校里的血迹几乎还未干透。
The blood was barely dry on the schoolhouse floor when Amish parents brought words of forgiveness to the family of the one who had slain their children.
而最弯曲的这一代人的事情是,我们已经创造了一个没有上帝救恩的方式,因此没有法律,因此没有宽恕,并因此完全没有希望。
And the most crooked thing about this generation is that we have created ways of salvation without God and therefore without law and therefore without forgiveness-and therefore utterly without hope.
研究表明那些能够宽恕别人的人相比那些不能的人,压力更小,更少生气,而更加了乐观。
Research shows that those who are able to forgive are less stressed, less angry, and more optimistic than those who aren’t.
上帝不仅仅承诺给予我们宽恕,而且在我们眼前还建立起宽恕的原则。这是一份得体而深刻的礼物。
It is a profound gift of grace that God has not only promised us forgiveness, but that he has established the foundations of it right before our eyes.
我们对自己的缺点不甚关注,即便是深陷困境而不得不正视它们的时候,我们也会很容易就宽恕自己。
We turn our attention away from our own defects, and when we are forced by untoward events to consider them, find it easy to condone them.
客户们是因为天真而选择宽恕的吗?
宽恕,仅仅因为你想他们改变而不是真正的宽恕,那只是操纵。最终的结果只会增加双方的怨恨。
Forgiving, just because you want them to change isn't really forgiveness, it is manipulation.
这是疗愈的另一个部分,在其中所有的疗愈实际上都是自我疗愈,而创造这次对话则允许了更大层次的一个交流以及自我内在的宽恕。
This is another part of the healing where all healing is really self healing and creating this dialog allows for a greater level of communication and forgiveness within myself.
而最起码似乎TigerWoods会欢迎这种可能性,真的有那么一个神能够宽恕他,就算ElinNordegren和与他的合作赞助商永远不会这么做。
And it's at least plausible that Tiger Woods might welcome the possibility that there's Someone out there capable of forgiving him, even if Elin Nordegren and his corporate sponsors never do.
我也应该不断为我愿意却无力提供给人们无条件的爱而请求他们的宽恕。
I should also ask forgiveness constantly, again and again, that I cannot offer people that unconditional love I would like to offer.
我宽恕那些为土地而抗争,或丢失土地或被抓入监狱的祖先们。
I forgive those ancestors who took a stand to defend their land and either lost or were imprisoned.
这里我不是正在宽恕没有技巧的选择,而只是要求你,对这位有时在它的选择上是没有智慧的存有拥有慈悲。
I am not condoning unskillful choices here, but only asking you to have mercy for this being that is sometimes unwise in its choices.
这里我不是正在宽恕没有技巧的选择,而只是要求你,对这位有时在它的选择上是没有智慧的存有拥有慈悲。
I am not condoning unskillful choices here, but only asking you to have mercy for this being that is sometimes unwise in its choices.
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