编者按：该文选自生活的教训系列，由阿布巴卡·贾米尔撰写。
Editor's Note: This article was written to be a part of the Life Lessons series, created by Abubakar Jamil.
一些最重要的生活的教训与智慧，年轻的罗斯不是从书本或在课堂上学来的。
Some of the most essential life lessons and wisdom young Ross acquired did not come from a book or a classroom.
但是经历过艰难的生活会给你不同寻常的教训，并培养你的勇气。
But having had a difficult life gives you unusual lessons and develops courage.
我认为这是一个我们可以从狩猎者群体中吸取到的教训，那些狩猎者依旧向我们的祖先那样生活。
I think that is the lesson we can take from current hunter-gatherer groups, people who still live in a way that our ancestors did.
如果让我选择最重要的生活教训来总结，那会是“生命是短暂的”。
If I had to choose, the most important life lesson is summarized to this: life is so short.
“上学时，老师教我们的最重要内容就是什么事不可以做，”他说，“但在现实生活中，我们得到的教训就是如何避免遇到麻烦，并在社会上生存下去。”
“In training, the most important lesson they teach you is when not to do something,” he said. “But in real life, it's all about staying out of trouble and surviving.
最后，但并不是不重要的一点是，坏主意有时又回到生活中，仅仅是因为人们忘记了过去重要的教训。
Last but not least, discredited ideas sometimes come back to life because societies simply forget important lessons about the past.
正视生活中的坎坷，把它当做成长中的教训。
We accept the ups and downs of life as natural events that can be used as lessons for our growth.
我不是强烈的忏悔主义追随者…我已经从每一个错误中吸取了极大的教训…并且我的生活现在相当好。
I'm not a big believer in regrets... and I have learned tremendously from every single mistake... and my life is pretty great.
对于林克这种出生在津巴布韦、但在1981年就生活在南非的人来说，过去的教训标明，种族关系的调和不需要大张旗鼓，只需要和平共处。
For Rinke, who grew up in Zimbabwe but has lived here since 1981, the lessons of the past are that race relations need not be a lovefest so long as there is civility.
从成功中吸取教训和关注闪光点都是使生活乃至世界更好的有力工具。
Learning from success and focusing on bright spots are powerful tools for making your life - and the world - better.
本文是我最初的邮件《33个生活中最深刻的经验教训》的续篇。
This is a sequel to my original post on 33 of Life's Most Powerful Lessons.
这些教训其实是从一些问题或苦恼的得到的，通常会改变我们的生活，增强我们的幸福感。
The life lessons embedded in these problems, or opportunities of discomfort, usually turn out to be life transforming and empowering for our overall wellbeing.
即使完成了，那也只是其中的一个点，而不是终点，因为你要时刻更新这本指南手册，因为在生活中，你将学到新的经验和教训，实现你的目标并迈向更高的目标。
There will never be a point when it is ‘finished’, since you are constantly updating it as you live through life, get new learnings, achieve your goals and aim for higher grounds.
那只是生活的一个细节，故而从单纯的逻辑学角度来说，如果我们已经通过犯错误买进潜在教训，那么收获相应的报酬不也很有意义么？
That's just a fact of life. So from a purely logical perspective, if we're already investing in the potential lessons by making mistakes, doesn't it make sense to reap the rewards as well?
我们学到的教训是国家在处于险境时能够干预人民的私生活。
The lesson we learnt was that the state can interfere with the private lives of people only at its peril.
你生活中出现的每一个问题，你都应该努力从中吸取教训。
In every problem that arises in your life, strive to learn the lesson and carry them as you move forward in life.
进行一个练习：你们两人都说出自己过去错误中汲取的生活教训。
Do an exercise where both of you come up with life lessons you have learned from past missteps.
如果你继续遵守以上这些简单的教训，生活中一切皆有可能。
Anything's possible in life if you continue to follow the simple lessons laid out above.
而我的建议是：顺其自然地跟着生活的道路走，从每次挫折中吸取教训，重新评估自己是否走对了，如果走错了就及时改变前进的路线吧。
My advice is to go with the flow, learn from these hurdles, re-evaluate and change course if need be.
因为我每次都会记下学到的经验教训(在我的生活手册里)，所以我从所学中慢慢成长。
Because I would write down lessons I learned each time (in my life handbook), I could then build upon my learnings.
不过，您最亲密的伙伴关系，现在都受到土星的艰难爱情生活教训。
However, all of your closest partnerships are now vulnerable to Saturn's tough love life lessons.
健全的家庭动力学可以用来教你一些生活的经验教训太强硬。
Dysfunctional family dynamics could be used to teach you some tough life lessons too.
健全的家庭动力学可以用来教你一些生活的经验教训太强硬。
Dysfunctional family dynamics could be used to teach you some tough life lessons too.
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