成为一名健谈的人的一个策略是，鼓励你的谈话对象说出他们自己的故事。
One strategy to be a good conversationalist is to motivate your partner to tell their own stories.
关于工作的意义，她是这样说的：“如果你有一份自己喜欢的工作，工作的意义远不止是赚钱。”
Here is what she says about the meaning of work: "If you have a job you like, work means much more than just making money."
对方继续用同样柔和的声调说：“那你以为你自己是谁呢？”
The other continued, in the same soft tone, "And whom dost thou imagine thyself to be?"
“靠自己你是无法维持所有那些薄弱的联系的。”马里兰大学的珍妮弗·高尔贝克说。
"You couldn't maintain all of those weak ties on your own," says Jennifer Golbeck of the University of Maryland.
如果你总是以某种方式或做某种事情，但它不再适合你，或者你不满足，爱默生说，即使是与我们自己的过去保持一致也是愚蠢的。
If you've always been a certain way or done a certain thing, but it's not working for you any more, or you're not content, Emerson says that it'd be foolish to be consistent even with our own past.
我说的不是你所说的 “一般人” ，你的面包师等等；请注意，我说的是我的同事们和我自己。
I do not speak of your "little men, " your baker and so on; I speak of my colleagues and myself, learned men, mind you.
“梦是你自己的。”芝加哥医疗中心心理学系主任罗莎琳·德卡特莱特说。
"It's your dream," says Rosalind Cartwright, chair of psychology at Chicago's Medical Center.
如果你读过或者听说了发生在我自己身上关于宽恕的故事，你就明白我为什么说宽恕是一个奇迹。
If you have read or heard my story of forgiveness you will understand why I consider forgiveness to be a miracle.
然而，就像我在开始时说的那样，第一步，是要承认你自己正在面对焦虑。
However, as I said earlier, the first step is to admit to yourself that you're dealing with anxiety.
我们知道你的感受，当我说你的感受时，是指你自己的理解也指你情绪上的感受。
We know your feelings, and when I say your feelings, I mean your intellect as well as what you emotionally perceive.
因此，你制造了自己的运气，就像他们说的，并且你必须对自己的相机有良好的控制力，不要因为是抓拍天或者模糊了鸟影，而错过那转瞬即逝的好机会。
So you make your own luck, as they say, and then you have to have enough control of your camera not to miss that split-second chance by blowing out the sky or blurring the birds.
“如果你开始从细节上去理解一个句子，并且能够说出每个部分是如何起作用的，那么你就可以知道自己的句子是好是坏以及其原因了。”菲什解释说。
"If you can begin to understand an accomplishment in detail, and be able to talk about what makes it work, you will begin to know why your sentences work or don't work," Fish explains.
“如果你开始从细节上去理解一个句子，并且能够说出每个部分是如何起作用的，那么你就可以知道自己的句子是好是坏以及其原因了。”菲什解释说。
"If you can begin to understand an accomplishment in detail and be able to talk about what makes it work you will begin to know why your sentences work or don't work" Fish explains.
“我要说，在我生命之中的大部分时间，我从不觉得自己是去上班，我觉得自己是要去做些很享受的事情，”他说，“如果觉得这是辛苦劳作，你就不应该去做。”
"I'd say for most of my life I never saw myself as going to work, I saw myself as going to do something I totally enjoy," he says. "if it's drudgery, you ought not do it."
“向他人传播你影响力的优点是，在这个过程中你自己的力量不消失，”芭芭拉·卡罗莎说。
“The beauty of empowering others is that your own power is not diminished in the process, ” said Barbara Coloroso.
并且当其他人攻击他们时，你说听着我觉得约翰说的是个好点子，和这是我认为他应该怎样维护自己的立场“，或者你有什么。”
And when somebody else then attacks them, say, "Look, I think that what John was saying was a good point and here's how I think he should have defended his position," or what have you.
如果你看了自己的工作环境，然后对自己说“我在工作时需要这些乱七八糟的东西围绕着我”，那么我的回答是：你是个垃圾！
If you've looked at your workspace and said to yourself "I need to work surrounded by all this mess," my reply is: rubbish!
这里的反语是说花时间和自己在一起的确是你满足和充足自己的生活所必须做的.
The irony here is that spending time with oneself is EXACTLY what you should be doing to lead a satisfying and fulfilling life.
跟他们聊聊你的感受...我明白承认自己孤独是件困难的事情，但是，说出来，真的对你有帮助。
Talk to them about your feelings … I know it can be difficult to admit to loneliness, but talking to someone about it can truly help.
你不能仅仅说你的目标是自己创业；你必须清楚的知道要达成这个目标你将要做的事情和它会怎样改变你的生活。
You can’t simply have the goal of “being self-employed”; instead, you need to have a clear picture of what you will be doing and how that will change your life.
对他们最有力的反击就是坚信(我是说坚信)自己以后要做的事情以及你为此不倦追求的原因。
Counter their skepticism by knowing exactly (and I mean, exactly) what you intend to do afterward and why you are suited for it.
这又是自我封闭式论点,因为你知道自己不会被驳倒,因为不管发生了什么，你总能为自己找到解释的原因,证明你说的是真的。
So again this is a self sealing argument because you know you can't be refuted because whatever happens you've got some reasons for why what you're saying is true.
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Read the hype on every new web browser released or due out this year, and you'll see claims that every one of them is "faster" than all the others.
你生活中所缺少的不过是另一伴，这样就把自己说成孤独是不理智的。
To call yourself lonely when all you lack is one person in your life is irrational.
创立了印度最大电影工作室“亚许拉吉电影公司”之一的乔普拉说，奖项是很大的动力，因为它们强迫你来证明自己的成就。
Chopra, who founded one of India's top studios, Yash Raj Films, said awards are a great motivator because they force you to justify your laurels.
法利赛人对他说，你是为自己作见证。 你的见证不真。
The Pharisees therefore said unto him, Thou bearest record of thyself; thy record is not true.
假如你不敢当着你的老板的面说他是混蛋而不担心自己会被解雇的话，你就没有自由。
If you can't call your boss a jerk now and then without fear of getting fired, you're no longer free.
假如你不敢当着你的老板的面说他是混蛋而不担心自己会被解雇的话，你就没有自由。
If you can't call your boss a jerk now and then without fear of getting fired, you're no longer free.
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