那么你又是如何与陌生人搭讪的呢？
我正在想搭讪的开场白。
就算你没这个搭讪的胆儿，你也会因为周边有单独食客而感觉舒服一些。
Even if you do not have the confidence to approach someone you will still feel more comfortable surrounded by other solos.
不要做得太过分，否则就会像在酒吧中与所有女人搭讪的低级俗人一样，最终不得不离开。
Don't overdo it or you come off like the sleazy guy hitting on all the women in the bar.
在教人搭讪的五年之中，我见过许多即使已经看过关于搭讪技巧的介绍，但是从来不去尝试的男生。
After teaching pickup for the last 5 years, I've seen my fair share of guys who read pickup tips and then don't try any of it.
如果他们答应了，那么，恭喜你，你可以不用再和他们玩这些搭讪的花招，而是展示真实的自己就好。
If they say yes then congratulations, you can stop playing games with them and start being yourself.
一款名为“泡妞前先喝Amp”的苹果iPhone应用程序向男人提供跟各种类型的女人搭讪的话和窍门。
An Apple iPhone app called "Amp up Before You Score" offered men pickup lines and tips for different stereotypes of women.
在和我搭讪的年轻女子中，她是少有的几个没有“做生意”目的的，这也是杭州少数几个令人不快的方面之一。
This is one of the few young women who have approached me without commercial gain in mind – one of the very few comfortable aspects of Hangzhou.
当你与别人见面时，需要考虑几样事情，比如这个见面会的性质(于公还是于私)，对方在被搭讪的同时在做什么。
When you meet someone, there are things you should always take into account, such as the context of the meeting (or business) and what they are doing at the moment of initiation.
他们的做法就是：在书店或者俱乐部走近一个女孩，想靠赞美她的某方面价值或者做一个不可思议的搭讪的例行公事，并以此来尝试立刻建立深层次的融洽。
They approach a girl at a bookstore or club and attempt to establish deep rapport right away by eliciting her values or doing an incredible connection ROUTINE.
如果女性只与男性发生目光的接触，她大概有20%的机会被人搭讪。
When a woman only established eye contact with a man, she was approached 20% of the time.
于是在一个晚上我向另一个女孩搭讪，而最终发生的事让我意识到我应该告别梅兰妮。
One night I hooked up with another girl, which finally made me realize I had to end things with Melanie.
我的女儿们和我一起出现在公共场合时，不得不耐心地接受善意的陌生人上来搭讪。
My daughters have to endure the interruptions of well-meaning strangers whenever their father takes them to the zoo.
当我在观看分界线的照片时，一个本地人过来和我搭讪，使劲向我介绍莫而斯塔的酒吧和餐馆。
One local man accosted me as I took a picture of the frontline, and insisted on showing me the bars and restaurants of Mostar.
她在对付那些讨厌的搭讪者时也总有一套，就是先下手为强：“我的丈夫是个雇佣军。
She also has a great tactic for dealing with unwanted chatups - go nuclear early: "My husband is a mercenary.
或许我们对于陌生人太不设防了，我们非常容易的就接收了一个陌生人的搭讪，或者我们更乐于去跟他们构筑长期关系。
Perhaps we are so relieved to find someone to talk to - an island of acceptance in a sea of strangers - that we are more likely to form a lasting bond.
这篇文章写给想要学习如何跟女生搭讪，但是又没胆儿去实操的男生。
This article is for guys who want to learn pickup but are too afraid to go into the field.
这一现象2003年初现于纽约，2004年爱尔兰共和国公共场所实行严厉的禁烟令时，借火搭讪风也吹到了那里。
Smirting was first identified in New York in 2003, and spread to the Republic of Ireland in 2004 when an aggressive smoking ban in public places was enacted.
一两个月之后我又去酒吧搭讪，结果我惊讶的发现我竟然自然而然地就做出了以前那些很费劲也做不出来的事。
After a month or two of that I went out to a bar with my friends and tried chatting to some girls. I was shocked with how much more smoothly things went.
拍照小技巧：你可以在小城镇里的咖啡馆或者餐馆跟人搭讪，告诉他们你想要找个农场拍拍照。
Photo Tip: Chat up the locals in small-town diners and cafes, and tell them you're looking for a farm to photograph.
科学有很多用处，但是它通常不会给你顺口的搭讪理由。
SCIENCE has many USES, but it doesn't often produce handy pick-up lines.
我所看到的大部分广告都是邀请去我去搭讪孤独的大学女生，但我的妻子是不会批准的。
Most of the ads I've seen invite me to check out lonely college girls and my wife doesn't approve of me doing that.
我觉得，在人多的地方用这东西跟女孩子搭讪，比牵一条拉布拉多犬有效果多了。
Using this in a public place, I found, was more useful for starting conversations with girls than having a Labrador on a leash.
忘了那些风趣的搭讪和须后水吧。
相对价值在搭讪中是一个极佳的工具，但是在社交圈游戏里确是至关重要的工具。
Relative status is a great tool in cold approach, but a crucial one in social circle game.
在英国，吧台可能是唯一一个和陌生人搭讪也被认为无伤大雅的的场所。
The bar counter is probably the only site in Britain where friendly conversation with strangers is considered appropriate.
在英国，吧台可能是唯一一个和陌生人搭讪也被认为无伤大雅的的场所。
The bar counter is probably the only site in Britain where friendly conversation with strangers is considered appropriate.
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