实际上， 同这些将要被拒绝的人们见面让我对年轻人充满希望。
Actually, meeting the soon-to-be rejected makes me hopeful about young people.
暗示、抱怨、或者讽刺式的恭维都是害怕拒绝的人避免直接冲突而惯用的几种方式。
Hinting, complaining, or giving back-handed compliments are just a few of the ways people with a fear of rejection avoid direct confrontation.
这样以来，有多少士兵因野外脑部伤势而获得紫心勋章，有多少士兵想要得到紫心勋章但是被拒绝的人数就不清楚了。
Thus, it is not clear how many soldiers have received the Purple Heart for mild traumatic brain injuries, or how many applied but were denied.
另一方面，学习成绩一直得A的人，约会从来没有被人拒绝的人，以及从来没有被公司解雇的人，或者从来没有经历过选举失败的人，可能会突然清醒。
On the other hand, someone who got straight a's, never got turned down for a date, was never fired from a job or defeated in an election, is going to have a very rude awakening.
面对人生的重大创痛，例如失去深爱的人，心理的第一反应就是拒绝接受。
With major life traumas, like losing a loved one, for instance, the mind's first reaction is denial.
该公司拒绝那些在面试时衣着不得体的人。
The company turns down people who show up at job interviews improperly dressed.
没有人会拒绝和一个有幽默感的人交朋友。
No one would refuse to make friends with a man with a good sense of humour.
我通常会拒绝那些看起来过于热心的人，但他住的旅馆就在那里，我没有心情骑车到处找其他地方。
Usually I turn down anyone who seems too eager, but his hotel was right there and I was in no mood to start cycling round looking for anywhere else.
如果使用奖励失败了，通过拒绝或威胁来排斥那些偏离主要群体规范的人，成员可以经常获胜。
Should the use of rewards fail, members can frequently win by rejecting or threatening to ostracize those who deviate from the primary group's norms.
如果你说“不”，即使是出于礼貌，你也可能会抑制（其他人）进一步的想法，不仅是那个记者的想法，还有那些听说你拒绝了这一想法的人的想法。
If you say no, even politely, you risk inhibiting further ideas, not just from that reporter, but from others who heard that you turned down the idea.
其次，与你共事的人需要考虑一个“如果……”的问题，包括“如果我的想法被拒绝该怎么办？”。
Second, the people you work with need to negotiate a "What if..." agreement covering "What if my idea is turned down?"
大部分我们都可以马上拒绝，那些没有合适的经验和资格的人，诸如此类的。
Most of which we can reject right away, people who don't have the right experience, qualifications, that kind of thing.
现在在电视上看到她的人，很难相信她曾经是一个在课堂上拒绝发言的害羞女孩。
People who see her on television now will find it hard to believe that she was once a shy girl who refused to speak up in class.
当俱乐部之外的天才们——女性、不同肤色或不同信仰的人——做出贡献时，他们不会被承认并且会被他人拒绝。
When contributions were made by geniuses outside the club—women, or people of a different color or belief—they were unacknowledged and rejected by others.
格兰特是个拒绝失败的人，他说，他要一直战斗到底，哪怕利用一整个夏天，也都要打下去。
Grant refused to accept defeat. He said he would fight to the finish, if it took all summer.
他们拒绝20岁以下的人加入俱乐部。
成千上万的人拒绝缴纳他们的税款。
我们的生活是由那些爱我们和拒绝爱我们的人共同打造出来的。
Our lives are shaped by those who love us and by those who refuse to love us.
自由之旅公司办公室一名接听电话的人拒绝对这起事故作任何评论，只是说公司稍后将发布正式意见。
A person who answered the phone at a Liberty Tours office declined to comment on the accident, but said the company would be releasing a statement.
过于自负的人拒绝承认自己的错误—甚至有时候否认自己制造错误的事实—因为他们感觉那将会打击到自己的形象。
Overly proud people refuse to admit their mistakes - and sometimes even deny the fact that they make them - because they feel that it would impugn their image.
变化也是不可避免的，通过解释说明，在动态市场中，那些拒绝采纳的人将会落后。
Change is inevitable, by definition, in a dynamic marketplace, and those who refuse to adapt will get left behind.
大学经常对那些只是出于商业宣传目的而进行捐赠的人予以拒绝，因为这可能影响大学的独立性和传统。
Colleges often say no to those who donate solely for commercial publicity, as it may affect the independence and traditions of the college.
批评声来自于那些许多相信进化论却又不在这个领域工作的人，也来自拒绝接受这一理论的人。
This criticism applies to many believers in evolution who are not actually workers in the field, as well as those who reject the theory.
自始至终，他都拒绝为了莫斯科的人类居民而宣布进入紧急状态。
All the while, he has refused to declare a state of emergency for Moscow's human inhabitants.
当我们被喜欢的人拒绝时，通常变得极其软弱的去忍受-为了一些好的进化论的理由。
We humans are soft-wired to suffer terribly when we are rejected by someone we adore- for good evolutionary reasons.
总是会有人拒绝使用新的技术，只有自然死亡才会减低这些拒绝使用新技术的人数。
There are always people who refuse to use new technology and it is only death that reduces their number.
总是会有人拒绝使用新的技术，只有自然死亡才会减低这些拒绝使用新技术的人数。
There are always people who refuse to use new technology and it is only death that reduces their number.
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