感觉不到你可以在生活中跟别人诉说烦恼（对，因为我不会有你这样的麻烦啊。） ，尴尬的是：在餐馆吃饭谁付呢。
Not feeling you should share some of the stressors in your life (‘Yeah, wouldn’t I like to have your problems’), awkwardness re: who should pay at a restaurant.
幸亏最后，我感觉过了一万年似的，终于有一个会说英文的乘客，指着几乎隐藏在司机身后的两个位置，说“你可以坐那儿。”
Finally, after what felt like an eternity, an English-speaking passenger pointed at two seats almost hidden behind the driver. “You can sit there,” he said.
感觉不到你可以在生活中跟别人诉说烦恼（对，因为我不会有你这样的麻烦啊。） ，尴尬的是：在餐馆吃饭谁付呢。
Not feeling you should share some of the stressors in your life (‘Yeah, wouldn't I like to have your problems’), awkwardness re: who should pay at a restaurant.
你也可以抓一本过期的时尚杂志，然后问问自己哪些能让我感觉很棒，哪些不能。
You can also just grab an old fashioned journal and ask yourself what made me feel great today, what did not.
我在本文中分享了其中一些，你就可以为之做好准备。如果自己碰到这些问题，感觉不会那么糟——它们本来就很普遍。
I share a few of them in this article so that you can be prepared for them or, perhaps, not feel too bad that you are experiencing them yourself - they are common.
即使不知道任何Ruby或任何物件导向语言，我打赌你也可以对下列的程序码范例有感觉，以下是实际的Ruby on Rails程序码。
Even without knowing any Ruby — or anything about object-oriented programming — I bet you can make sense out of the following code examples, which are pieces of actual Ruby on Rails code.
从十年前我出版于英国的小说《黑色旋动》（Dark Swirl）中，你可以看到，在一个双重视点的世界中，当地神话是怎样与当今感觉和态度结合的。
In my novel Dark Swirl, published in the UK more than decade ago, you can see how local myth combines with present feelings and attitudes, in more than a binary view world.
戈尔茨坦(Elyse Goldstein)说，这是一种试图抹去不好感觉和记忆的实际方法，甚至可以说是神奇的方法，这样做会把那个人的重要性降到最小，就好像是在说，“我把你扔进了垃圾箱”。
'It's minimizing the importance of the person, as if to say, 'I'm throwing you in the trash.''
你可以写下你能想到的有关感觉的所有词汇（我认识的一位治疗学家估计约有150个）。
Write down all the feeling words you think of (a therapist I know reckons there are about 150).
每天早上这个老妇人就会去到小笼子那里，然后说：“汉斯，伸出你的手指，这样我就可以感觉到你是否足够胖可以吃了。”
Every morning the old woman would go out to the little cage, and say: "Hansel, stick out your finger, that I may feel if you are fat enough for eating.
每天早上这个老妇人就会去到小笼子那里，然后说：“汉斯，伸出你的手指，这样我就可以感觉到你是否足够胖可以吃了。”
Every morning the old woman would go out to the little cage, and say: "Hansel, stick out your finger, that I may feel if you are fat enough for eating."
我理解你的感觉，关于你自己的家庭的不快乐和未解决的问题，但是我再次请求你检查为什么这意味著你不可以找到与你自己的孩子在一起的快乐？
I understand that you have feelings of unhappiness and unresolved issues with your own family but, again, I ask you to examine why that means that you cannot find happiness with your own children?
因为当你想创建一个网上业务时，你有奇怪的感觉，您可以感觉到它会很快发生，至少这就是我的想法。
It's weird, because when you think about creating an online business, you instantly get the feeling that it should happen fast, at least that is what I thought.
如果依然遇到反抗和拒绝，老板可以说：我知道，虽然你当时支持这个想法，但我感觉你还是认为有些不妥。
If you still encounter resistance and denial, you could say, "I know you said you supported it, but I got the sense that you were uncomfortable about it in some way."
她问我是否可以帮她把袜子穿上，我没有回答，而是自顾自地说起来：“你感觉怎么样？
She asked if I could help put on her socks. Instead, I launched into a monologue that went something like this: “How are you feeling?
我知道这个有效因为一天仅简单的锻炼几分钟就可以让你感觉到不同。
I know it is effective because just a simple exercise a few minutes a day can make you feel different.
你可以写下你能想到的有关感觉的所有词汇(我认识的一位治疗学家估计约有150个)。
Write down all the feeling words you think of (a therapist I know reckons there are about 150). Then at the end of each day, think about what happened and how you felt.
尽管有些人认为这根本不值一提，可你要知道，曾经一度我可以确定她对我没有同样的感觉了。
While this may strike some as a feat not worth mentioning, you should know that there was a time when I was certain that my wife didn't feel the same way about me.
像“你怎么总是这么鲁莽”这类的话会使孩子们感觉他们无法在自己冲动的时候控制自己，但是更好的评价可以是这样的“你对你弟弟的态度确实过分了，可是我相信你不是有意要冲他发脾气打他的。”
Comments like "You always work yourself up into such a frenzy!" will make kids feel like they have no control over their outbursts. A better statement is, "You were really mad at your brother.
我想推荐你第一次约会请她去吃饭(第一次约会不要是午餐哦)带她到你感觉自由自在，舒服的地方活着你可以承受得起的地方。
I would recommend taking your date out for dinner (no lunch dates on the first date either). Take her somewhere you feel comfortable and somewhere you can easily afford.
在红土上，我感觉你甚至可以做得比在其他场地更多。
On the clay, I have the feeling you can do it even more than on other surfaces.
你感觉如何时，你可以用多种方式来回答，例如：Ifeeltired /我感觉累；I feel fine /我感觉很好；I feel good /我感觉不错。
How do you feel?, you can respond in various ways, eg: I feel tired / I feel tired; I feel fine / I feel fine； I feel good / I feel good.
在大多数讲话中你用不同方式说过这些，但是我发现这很难做到，不光是理解这个想法以及它的深度很难，而且理解安静的空无感觉也很难，如果我可以用这个词的话。
You have said this in different ways in most of your talks and I find this awfully difficult, not only to grasp the idea, the depth of it but the feeling of quiet emptiness, if I can use that word.
可能吧．不过自从吃素以后，我感觉很好，你也可以尝试一下．。
Yes, maybe. But I feel bettcr since becoming a vegctarian* Maybe you could also bave a try.
但告诉自己，挺三天就可以了，三天后事情自然变得容易，你会适应新的生活，而没有感觉说我被剥夺吃饭的权利。
But just tell yourself that it's just for 3 days. After that, it will start to get easier.
我们如何感觉我们正在跨越的顶部赛季我展示你女孩可以摇滚！
How we feel we're crossing over the top of the season I show you girls can rock!
但是如果回应是“对啊，当时我感觉被冒犯了/很生气/很吃惊，但是没什么大不了的，”你的道歉就可以相对草率一点。
On the other hand, if the response is more like "Yeah, I was offended/angry/surprised, but it's no big deal, " your apology can be more perfunctory.
但是如果回应是“对啊，当时我感觉被冒犯了/很生气/很吃惊，但是没什么大不了的，”你的道歉就可以相对草率一点。
On the other hand, if the response is more like "Yeah, I was offended/angry/surprised, but it's no big deal, " your apology can be more perfunctory.
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