对于我而言，成为一个好男人的一部分就是清楚什么是我不需要知道的。
And for me, part of being a good man is knowing what I don't need to know.
“我不是一个完美的女子”她说，“所以我也不需要找到一个完美的男人。”
"I'm not a perfect lady," she says. "So I do not need a perfect man.
假如我在更年轻的时候就开始寻找第一个爱人，也许我并不需要互联网的帮助，但它提供了一个快速、便捷、免费的登广告找男人的方式。
If I'd been looking for my first lover at a more conventional age, maybe I wouldn't have needed the Internet, but it provided a quick, easy and free way of advertising for a man.
他说：“他第一次体会到一种避难所的庇荫，一种和自己和平相处的感觉，生活在接受我的男人们之中，不需要再为自己找借口，因为一切已经变得如此自然。”
For the first time, he said, he experienced "a sense of sanctuary, a feeling of peace with myself among men who accepted me without the pretenses that by then had become so automatic."
但就我所接触的男人都非常有力量，他们不需要女人来获得心灵的宁静。
I'm not sure if woman needs man's strength, I feel women are more powerful.
但就我所接触的男人都非常有力量，他们不需要女人来获得心灵的宁静。
I'm not sure if woman needs man's strength, I feel women are more powerful.
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