自相矛盾的是，你要做的事情越少，就越是对突然落在你身上的工作不满。
Paradoxically, the less you have to do the more you may resent the work that does come your way.
你找对思路了——真正重要的是所有树叶整体的回声。
You are on the right track—it is actually the echo of all the leaves as a whole that matters.
编码是一种特殊的方式，能让你把注意力集中到一件事上，对你以后回想起它有很大影响。
Encoding, is a special way of paying attention to an event that has a major impact on recalling it later.
医生们以胡萝卜籽和胡萝卜根为药，其依据是味道不好的食物对你一定有益。
Doctors used carrot seeds and roots as medicine on the theory that foods that taste bad must be good for you.
对你所知甚少的问题不发表意见是明智的选择。
It is a wise choice not go pronouncing on a subject that you know so little about.
事实上，当你违反了一个规则或法律，你就失去了对你的生活的控制，并给予别人施加于你惩罚的权力，这种惩罚是你无法控制的。
In fact, when you break a rule or law, you lose control over your life and give others the power to impose punishment that you have no control over.
沙克特解释说：“编码是一种特殊的方式，它能让你把注意力集中到一件事上，而这件事对你以后回忆起它有很大的影响。”
Encoding, Schacter explains, is a special way of paying attention to an event that has a major impact on recalling it later.
我告诉自己，从长远来看，所有的经历都会让你成为一名更好的记者。幸运的是，我是对的。
I told myself that all experiences make you a better journalist in the long run and luckily, I was right.
事情就这样发生了，你所做的是对她最大的好处。
It has so happened that what you have done has been the greatest good for her.
然而，有趣的是，你认为的其他可能有利的特征对参与研究的人的寿命没有影响。
Interestingly, however, other characteristics that you might consider advantageous had no impact on whether study participants were likely to live longer.
你对形式和风格非常熟悉，最重要的是，你是YOU这个领域的世界级专家。
The form and style are very familiar, and best of all, you are the world-class expert on the subject of YOU.
有趣的是，如果你很喜欢你的工作，对它充满激情并且工作非常努力，那钱就自然而然地挣到手了。
The funny thing is that if you love what you do and are really passionate about it and work really hard, then money kind of comes automatically.
你可能知道我们社区的年轻人是经常使用它的，但不幸的是我们接到越来越多的报告，称玻璃碎片对年幼的孩子特别危险。
As you probably know, it's well used by younger people in our community, but unfortunately we're getting more and more reports of broken glass making it especially dangerous for younger children.
培育孩子时，记住不管他们对你发多大的脾气，你是你孩子们的英雄。
When raising kids, remember that no matter how mad they are at you, you are your kids' hero.
你把这理解为一个信号，而且是一个礼貌的信号，说明他对你这个人感兴趣，而不只是对谈话的话题感兴趣。
You interpret this as a sign—a polite one—that he is interested in you as a person rather than just in the topic of conversation.
对你最有帮助的是，对睡眠时间进行安排。
对你来说，自信是与他人好好相处的一个很重要的规则。
Believing in yourself is a very important rule for you to get along well with others.
对我来说，重要的是要知道，你不必总是在第一次就把每件事都做正确，好的事情总是伴随着不断的努力而来。
It was important for me to learn that you don't have to always get everything right the first time and that good things come with continual effort.
只要不整天吃，巧克力对你是有好处的！
Chocolate is good for you as long as you don't eat it all day long!
最重要的是，你应该努力成为一个好哥哥或姐姐，你的父母也希望你对你的兄弟或姐妹友好。
The most important thing is that you should try to be a good elder brother or sister, your parents also wish you to be friendly to your brother or sister.
例如，你这样对你的老师是有点不礼貌的。
For example, it's a bit impolite if you do this to your teacher.
如果你的工资是按天或按周计算的，那么2月29日对你来说可能是个好消息。
A year with a February 29th might be good news if you are paid by the day or the week.
他说，当你 a）对你正在学习的东西感兴趣并且喜欢它，b）你能控制你所学的东西，c）你接受有挑战性、让你努力思考的任务时，大脑的变化是最剧烈的。
He says that brain change is strongest when a) you are interested in and like what you are learning, b) you are in control of what you learn and c) you get challenging tasks that make you think hard.
在那里比巴尔对邻舍说：“看哪，你说得完全对，你卖的是井，不是水。”
There Birbal said to the neighbor, "Look, you are completely right, and you sold the well not the water."
收集它们最好的方法是有一个特别的相册，把你的收藏放进去，并写下每件事对你的意义。
The best way to collect them is to have a special album to put your collection in and to write what each thing means to you.
定位的市场是很小的，但也是有利可图的，是市场上对你的产品有需求的那一部分。
A niche is a small, but profitable, segment of the market where there is demand for your product.
低于每周20个小时的适度游戏对你是有好处的。
Games are good for you in moderation, up to 20 hours a week.
对你来说在他们抱怨的基础之上采取行动是很重要的，因为没能那样做会有损孩子对你的信任和尊重。
It is important that you take action based on their complaints, as failing to do so will devastate the child's trust and respect in you.
所以你学会了那些习惯，那些习惯很有趣、很轻松，唯一的问题是那也很“坏”：对你的健康有害，对你的人际关系有害，最终对你的长期幸福有害。
So you picked up the habit, it was fun, it was relaxing, the only problem was it was also... "bad;" bad for your health, bad for your relationships, and ultimately bad for your long-term happiness.
而且最重要的是：当你泄气时，当你失落时，总要记得对“你的付出会得到回报”要有信心。
And above all, when you are discouraged, when you are down, always remember to have faith that your efforts will be rewarded.
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