这正是宽恕他人的关键。
第十七章如何运用你的潜意识来宽恕他人？
Chapter 17. How to Use Your Subconscious Mind for forgiveness.
它促使人们宽恕他人。
当你宽恕他人的时候，并不意味他们不为自己的行为负责。
When you forgive someone this does not mean that they are no longer accountable for their actions.
第二种是对他人的初级宽恕，即你需要宽恕他人的过失。
The second kind of forgiveness is beginner forgiveness for another.
事实上，宽恕他人也许是我们所做过的所有事情中最难的一件。
In fact, it will probably be the hardest thing most of us ever have to do.
对某些人来说，宽恕他人是不可能的，因为他们不懂得如何宽恕。
For some people forgiveness feels impossible because they have no idea how to go about it.
使我们会有宽恕他人的态度的唯一原因，是神愿意藉基督饶恕我们。
But one thing that ought to lead us toward a forgiving attitude is that God in Christ was willing to forgive us.
鲍西娅：慈悲带来益处。我们应该学会宽恕他人。你还要求得到这一磅肉吗？
Mercy brings good. We should learn to show mercy to others. Do you still ask for this pound of flesh?
⊙、人本该是有良心的，就连最残酷的心也会有宽恕他人的短暂、美好的记忆。
People should be have a conscience, even the most cruel heart will have the short, memories of forgiveness.
你必须接受的第一件也是最重要的一件事情便是：宽恕他人不是一件容易的事。
The first and most important thing you need to accept is that the act of forgiveness is not going to be easy.
这责任也推广到那些思想和行为方式跟我们不同的人。基督的教导更要求宽恕他人的冒犯。
This same duty extends to those who think or act differently from us. the teaching of Christ goes so far as to require the forgiveness of offenses.
宽恕是给他人的礼物。
另一个需要宽恕罪行的地方是我们原谅他人。
Another requirement for forgiveness of SINS in that we forgive others.
我们并未被他人的行为所约束，我们可以通过祷告来宽恕。
We don't have to be bound by other people's behaviour, we can forgive through Prayer.
宽恕不能讨价还价——无条件的宽恕意味着已经接受了其他人，他们的选择和结果是没有例外的。
Forgiveness can't be bargained — Unconditional forgiveness means that we have come to accept the other person, their choice and the outcome without exception.
今天，为了你对他人犯下的罪，花些时间向神祷告，求神宽恕你。
Spend a few moments in prayer today asking God to forgive you for the things you've done to others.
宽恕赐予你平静的思绪，完整的自尊，与他人缓和的关系以及稳定的未来。
It is a gift to your peace of mind, your self esteem, your relationships with others, your future.
真心的宽恕，不指望他人的道歉或改变。
Sincere forgiveness isn't colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change.
宽恕并非为他人而为，实则能帮你从气愤痛苦中解脱。
Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else, but to free YOURSELF from the continuation of pain and anger.
随后的一张解释了为什么有很多个体发现要你宽恕一个人真的很难，为什么会有没办法原谅他人的理由，为什么抱怨回事痛苦的来源。
Subsequent chapters explain why so many individuals find it so difficult to forgive, and why holding onto grievances is really a decision to suffer.
我们只能通过宽恕获得内心的健康，因为宽恕不仅事关他人，更事关自己。
We achieve health only through forgiveness - the forgiveness not only of others but also of ourselves.
愿意宽恕你自己和他人，对你的过去释怀。宽恕就是释怀，是你给自己的礼物。
Be willing to forgive yourself and others and let go of your past. Forgiveness is freeing; it is the gift you give yourself.
我宽恕那些不给补偿为了自己的私欲而掠夺他人生存的土地的祖先们。
I forgive those ancestors who took away the land that other humans lived upon without compensation and for self gain.
当我能够抑制住自己去评价他人的时候，这些人就成了教会我宽恕的老师，不断提醒我只有以宽恕代替评价的时候，我的心才能获得平静。
When I am able to resist the temptation to judge others, I can see them as teachers of forgiveness in my life, reminding me that I can only have peace of mind when I forgive rather than judge.
愿意宽恕自己和他人，对你的过去释怀。宽恕就是释怀，是你给自己的礼物。
Be willing to forgive yourself and others and let go of your past. Forgiveness is freeing; it is the gift you give yourself.
我愿意宽恕那些拥有极大仇恨以至于杀害或致残他人的祖先们。
I intend to forgive those ancestors who hated so greatly that they would kill or maim another human.
主给予我们的宽恕是我们原谅他人的动力。无论何时，一旦有人伤害了你，你可以选择
The mercy God shows to us is the motivation for us to show mercy to others. Whenever you're hurt by someone, you have a choice to make
主给予我们的宽恕是我们原谅他人的动力。无论何时，一旦有人伤害了你，你可以选择
The mercy God shows to us is the motivation for us to show mercy to others. Whenever you're hurt by someone, you have a choice to make
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