我仔细聆听别人的主意和情感。
他宁愿自己思考而不愿轻信别人的主意。
He prefers thinking for himself to simply following others' ideas.
如果你认同上述提出的建议，那么你把目标告诉别人就是一个坏主意了。
If you follow the advice of the study I mentioned previously, then telling other people your goals is a bad idea.
他知道管好他的嘴巴：谈论你的主意将会使别人偷走你的财富。
He knew to keep his mouth shut: talking about your ideas might let someone else steal your profits.
因此如果你要拒绝的话，你就得让别人清楚的知道你不会再改变主意了。
You have to make it clear, if you say no, that you're not going to change your mind.
我可以教你们一些具体的做法，然而，最有效的方法让孩子们自己拿主意，并且注意观察孩子们对每一次的选择都有什么感觉以及他们的选择会使别人有怎样的看法。
There are some specific ways that I teach, however the most powerful way is to allow our children to make choices based on how each choice makes them feel and how their choice will make others feel.
此时的你在别人眼里星光闪耀，你要尽可能地发挥你的创造力，张显你的能力，和别人分享你的想法和主意。
This is when you'll shine extremely brightly in the eyes of others... You'll want to be as original as possible &stand tall &share your thoughts &ideas with others...
即使我声称明白一切，我也不会明白。我无须知道太多当碰巧帮助了别人，也教育了自己，我能够分享我的经验、建议和好的主意。
What I do know though is that through experience life, listening to others, and educating myself, I am able to share Suggestions, advice and ideas.
非学校教育是一种非正式的教育方法，实施这种方法的前提是：就一个人所能达到的能力水平而言，能够自己拿主意的人要比让别人来控制或评价其行为的人要更加全面。
Unschooling is an informal approach to education based on the premise that people who make their own decisions perform more competently than those whose behavior is controlled or judged by others.
如果对这种思想有抵触甚至不想征求别人对这种主意的意见，那么，这是一个危险信号，它不是从上帝而来的。
Resistance to the thought of even asking somebody else about your idea, that should be a huge red flag that the idea did not come from God.
O开化(openness)：对别人的、新的想法以及荒诞而有趣的主意都能敞开你的胸襟。
O civilized (openness): for others new ideas and absurd and interesting idea can open your mind.
我总是行贿别人，但是我改变主意了。这是自由的国家。
I bribe people all the time, but I changed my mind. It's a free country.
和别人一起工作是一个好主意，但不要和你的朋友交一样的作业，因为我们会注意的。
And while it's a good idea to work with other people don't hand in work which is exactly the same as your friend's work because we will notice!
你要向别人学习、提问、尝试新主意并且测试你的能力。
You want to learn with other people, ask questions, try out ideas and test your ability.
他们很被动。他们没有成功地推出自己的主意，而是让别人提出方案而他们可以很轻易地拒绝。
Passive, they failed to put forward their own ideas, leaving it to others to present proposals they could then conveniently turn down.
你是否曾有过自己不敢言，而别人却说出来，后来那人因为这个主意而获得奖赏的可憎经历呢？不要让这种事情再发生了。
Have you ever experienced that horrible feeling when you don't say what's on your mind and someone else does, and then they get accolades for the idea?
当他笑着对别人说话时，其实心里面想的是坏主意。
When he talked with people he always wore a sweet smile, but he was conjuring up evil ideas in his mind.
当他笑着对别人说话时，其实心里面想的是坏主意。
When he talked with people he always wore a sweet smile, but he was conjuring up evil ideas in his heart.
我不会告诉别人是否要检测，我只是告诉你我对于你情况的评估。再读下我上面的回复，自己拿主意。
I do not tell people whether or not to be tested. I told you my assessment of the situation. Re-read my reply and make your own decision.
在这个世界上真的有所谓的设计天才吗？能把别人想不到的主意魔术般的变出来吗？
Are some people just born as geniuses who can somehow conjure up magical solutions to problems that almost seem impossible to overcome?
即使他们有很好的主意，也会很害怕告诉别人，害怕被人家嘲笑。
Even though they have very talented ideas they are afraid of telling others, they are afraid of being laughed at.
我很有信心说出我自己的主意，别人说话的时候，我直视他的眼睛。
I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people the eyes when talking.
因为一个有风险主意有失败的可能，很多人往往会让别人来负责。
Because the idea of risk also carries with it the possibility of failure, many of us usually wait for others to take charge.
许多人都很茫然，于是他们跑去让别人替他们拿主意，然而又为听了他人的意见而后悔。
Many people do not know what to do. They rush about letting other people make decisions for them, then regret having taken their advice.
要钱不如要影响力，这也是我喜欢帮别人出主意的原因吧。
I changed the music industry for better and for always. it may not have been good business, but it pissed a lof of people off.
他们可能会对同事极不信任，这使得他们因为害怕被笑话或害怕自己的主意被别人剽窃而不敢参与团体合作任务。
Serious problems. They may be so distrustful of their fellow workers that they are unable to join in any group task for fear of being laughed at or fear of having their ideas stolen.
另外，一定要相信自己，如果你想起了一个你坚信的好主意，就不要让别人给你泼冷水！
If you come up with a new idea that you believe in, don't allow other people to discourage you from pursuing it.
另外，一定要相信自己，如果你想起了一个你坚信的好主意，就不要让别人给你泼冷水！
If you come up with a new idea that you believe in, don't allow other people to discourage you from pursuing it.
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