有安全感的人才能够事奉，缺乏安全感的人总是担心别人对自己的看法。
Only secure people can serve. Insecure people are always worrying about how they appear to others.
我们一定不要再担心别人对自己的看法，而要对自己的观点和梦想充满信心。
We have to stop worrying what other people think of us, and start to believe in our own opinions and dreams.
中国人做事前总是会想别人对自己的看法，做任何事情都要瞻前顾后，觉得人言可畏。
Chinese people always think twice before action for the view of other people, being indecisive to, do anything, feeling the arguments in the shadows terrible.
你是否因为在意别人对自己的看法而曾经改变过自己想法，背对自己的承诺，放弃自己的梦想？
Have you ever changed your mind, backed out of something or even given up on a dream... because you were afraid of what someone else might think of you?
但这种自然、健康的特性却牢牢控制了我们的生活，以至于我们时时诚惶诚恐，害怕面对外部的世界，为别人对自己的看法而烦恼不已。
But this natural and healthy tendency has taken over our lives to such an extent that we are often paralyzed by a fear of the outside world and obsessed by how others see us.
当别人对你的态度和你对自己的看法一致时，你就得到了证实。
Confirmation occurs when others treat you in a manner consistent with who you believe you are.
我们只会想着自己该怎么做，不会在乎别人对我们行为的看法。
We only perceived how we wanted to act, not what people thought of our actions.
下次你再担心别人对你的看法时，问问你自己他们的想法是否真的能够影响你？
Next time you're worrying about what someone might think of you, ask yourself can their thoughts really affect me?
我可以教你们一些具体的做法，然而，最有效的方法让孩子们自己拿主意，并且注意观察孩子们对每一次的选择都有什么感觉以及他们的选择会使别人有怎样的看法。
There are some specific ways that I teach, however the most powerful way is to allow our children to make choices based on how each choice makes them feel and how their choice will make others feel.
怎样实行：自己要有对事物的看法或者你可以询问别人对某事的看法，而不是自己说完一句话就完了。
How to practice it: Work on having an opinion or asking for the other person's view of things rather than just throwing a remark out there.
敬拜中最令你分心的，往往是你自己——你的兴趣以及你忧虑别人对你的看法。
Your biggest distraction in worship is yourself-your interests and your worries over what others think about you.
如果是这样的话，那为什么不让自己歇一歇呢，让别人代劳一下。这样你在生活中的烦躁就不会扭曲你对感情的看法了。
If that is the case, why not delegate your tasks as much as possible, so that we that your exhaustion doesn't distort your perspective on relationships.
讨论他们自己的看法与别人对他们表现的看法是个好的起点。
It's a great starting point for discussion of their perceptions versus others perceptions of their performance.
如果你跟多数男孩一样爱护自己的身体，穿着得体的衣服，别人对你的看法多半是满不错的。
If you're like most guys who take care of their bodies and wear clothes that look good, you probably look great to others.
身体感到平衡和舒适能影响到你对自己和别人对你的看法。
Feeling well-balanced and comfortable affects the way you feel about yourself and the way others perceive you.
一个充满希望的，乐观的看法可能是当别人处在你的境地时，你对别人的建议，所以为什么不转转局势在你自己身上试试。
A hopeful, optimistic outlook is probably something you would advise to someone else in your situation, so why not turn the tables and try it yourself.
研究人员调查了受试者们对自己和别人的身材的看法。
Researchers surveyed subjects about their opinions of their own bodies and those of others.
这种自信帮助你和别人交流的时候感到舒服，并且也影响了你对自己的看法。
The confidence that helps you feel comfortable talking to people also spills into your own personal beliefs about yourself.
一个人可以骄傲却不虚荣。骄傲多指我们对自己的看法，虚荣多指我们希望别人对我们的看法。
A person may be proud without being vain. Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves, vanity to what we would others think of us.
如果别人认为你骄傲自大，固执己见或者无所不知，他们就会认为你以自我为中心，对自己的能力存在不切实际的看法。
If others see you as cocky, inflexible, or as a "know it all", they will see you as self-centered and unrealistic about your own abilities.
你必须创造田径纪录，打破你自己的成绩，或至少打破别人对你的固有看法。
You have to create a track record of breaking your own mold, or at least other people's idea of that mold.
有这么多的人谁不想与别人分享。无论他们这么做，他们将第一次对自己的看法。
There are so many people who don't want to share with others. Whatever they do they will think about themselves first.
我太在意别人的看法和自己的形象，所以我非常害怕丢脸，这会使我不敢去挑战自己，对我自身是不好的。
I care too much about others' opinions and my image, so I badly afraid of it. It would stop me from challenges that it's not good to me.
而且，我还感觉女孩子们为了找到另一半，而花费了太多的心思精力来担心他人对自己的看法。为什么女孩子们喜欢听到别人夸自己好看？
Also, I feel like girls, in order to find a guy, spend much of their time worrying about what others think of them.
你对生活和命运的看法更多地取决于你对自己的看法，而不是别人怎么看你。
You will never know who some of these people are. You also may never know how many people care about you and how your life turns out.
他们根本不在乎你，他们只会忙着忧虑你和别人对他们自己的看法。
They aren't concerned about you. They're too busy worrying about what you and other people think of them.
他们根本不在乎你，他们只会忙着忧虑你和别人对他们自己的看法。
They aren't concerned about you. They're too busy worrying about what you and other people think of them.
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