你将不会被别人对你的想法或说法影响。
You gain the ability to be emotionally and mentally unaffected by what people think or say about you.
当别人对你的想法感到很兴奋并给你意见时,将他们记录下来。
Keep notes when people seem excited about what you are talking about and give you ideas.
真正的淡定从容表现在拥有清晰的思维,并且不因别人对你的想法或话语而受影响。
True inner detachment manifests as the ability to think clearly and to be immune to what people think or say about you.
研究人员发现别人对你的想法受你的长相的影响之大超过你之前的想象,甚至可能帮你免受牢狱之灾。
Your face influences what others think of you far more than previously thought, researchers have found - and could even help you escape punishment for a crime.
其他的想法甚至带有欺骗性质,例如假装对别人的爱好感兴趣好让他们喜欢你。
Other ideas were even deceptive, faking interest in others' hobbies so they will like you, for instance.
O开化(openness):对别人的、新的想法以及荒诞而有趣的主意都能敞开你的胸襟。
O civilized (openness): for others new ideas and absurd and interesting idea can open your mind.
下次你再担心别人对你的看法时,问问你自己他们的想法是否真的能够影响你?
Next time you're worrying about what someone might think of you, ask yourself can their thoughts really affect me?
坚持自己认为对的事情,别人怎么想不是那么重要,重要的是你内心的想法。
What others think and say about you isn't all that important. What is important is how you feel about yourself.
如今有很多方式可以让你的想法被别人听见,比如博客、社会媒体网站、茶话会、偶然的见面、组织支持、事实陈述当然还有老式的一对一面谈。
There are so many avenues today to get your idea heard. There are blogs, social media sites, tea parties, meet-ups, support groups, reality shows and of course the good old one-on-one conversation.
你是否因为在意别人对自己的看法而曾经改变过自己想法,背对自己的承诺,放弃自己的梦想?
Have you ever changed your mind, backed out of something or even given up on a dream... because you were afraid of what someone else might think of you?
我不太可能画条线说,线这边是别人的想法,那边是我自己的想法,我也没办法告诉你其他人的创作对我有多大程度的影响,因为我对别人的借鉴都是在潜意识中完成的。
I can't possibly draw the line and say exactly where somebody else's ideas end and my own begin and to what extent it colors my work because most of that borrowing is done subconsciously.
很有可能,当时的创意与你将如何向别人推销或分享它完全无关;它很可能仅仅与你当时对该想法的兴趣有关。
Chances are, it probably had nothing to do with how you were going to share or sell the idea - it probably had everything to do with the fact that you were interested in playing with the idea.
不要枉顾别人的想法而肆意倾倒你的垃圾信息,更不要随便对一个不熟悉的人卖弄你的小道消息和私人问题。
Not by other people's ideas and wanton dumping of your information, not just to an unfamiliar person to show off your personal problems and hearsay.
你的想法可能并不总是对的,而对于别人,不要总是试图去说服他们,他们错了。
Your way may not always be the right way for others, so don't try to convince them that they're wrong.
就算是对你自己也不应下判断,永远将你自己的想法秘藏心中,也容别人保留他们的想法。
Yet even this you should not judge, but keep always your own counsel, and allow others theirs.
写点东西。如果你不想对别人倾诉,那就记录下你的感受,以此表达你的想法。
Write something. Write down how you feel as a way to express your thoughts if you don't feel like talking to anyone.
当你对别人发出仁慈、宽容的想法,你的周围会产生美丽的光能场,让你不受人们较低等的粗顿思想所伤害。
Sending kind, understanding thoughts to others creates a beautiful aura around you that makes you invulnerable to lower, coarser thoughts that come from other people.
事实上,别人对你发出的负想法,将以相同的力道被你的光气场弹开,依最小阻力路径行进,而回到发出想法的人。
In fact, negative thoughts sent to you by others will rebound from your aura with the same force with which they were sent out, and seeking the lines of least resistance, will return to the sender.
重新描述别人所讲述的类容:练习对那个说:“让我想想我所理解的“,然后重新用你自己的话描述一下你所认为的别人的想法。
Restate what has been stated: Practice saying, "Let me see if I understand" to someone, then restate what you think they mean in your own words.
所以除非思考的想法对你来讲是重要的,不然你会被别人可能重要或不重要的思想所激活。
And so, unless you are setting forth the thought that is important to you, you can be stimulated by another's thought that may or may not be important to you.
对别人说的事皆报以“这只是你的想法”的来答。
Reply to everything someone says with "that"s what YOU think. "
今天,越来越多的人都说整容手术,因为他们对自己不自信,他们觉得美丽的脸庞让他们出众,这是错误的想法。 做自己,你有闪光点,那才是让你出众的地方。 不要盲目羡慕别人。
Today, more and more people are doing plastic surgery, because they are not confident with themselves, they think the beautiful face makes them outstand, this is wrong idea.
今天,越来越多的人都说整容手术,因为他们对自己不自信,他们觉得美丽的脸庞让他们出众,这是错误的想法。 做自己,你有闪光点,那才是让你出众的地方。 不要盲目羡慕别人。
Today, more and more people are doing plastic surgery, because they are not confident with themselves, they think the beautiful face makes them outstand, this is wrong idea.
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