不论与何人邂逅，要记得重要的不是你说的什么，而是你如何去说。
In all your encounters with others, remember that it's not so much what you say but how you say it.
“你说的什么消息？”爱玛答道，从神情和话音判断，她还猜不出哈丽特是否真的听到了风声。
What news do you mean? 'replied Emma, unable to guess, by look or voice, whether Harriet could indeed have received any hint.
他的父亲说：“汉赛尔，你一直落在后面看什么呢？”
His father said: "Hansel, what are you looking at there and staying behind for?"
“你以后再告诉我印度王公的事，”他说，“先告诉我第二件事是什么。”
"I shall make you tell me about Rajahs presently," he said, "but first tell me what the second thing was."
如果有人跟你说你必须做一个演讲，你的回答可能是“我必须做什么？”
When someone tells you that you have to give a speech, your response may be "I gotta do what?"
下次当你看到一个说产品的效率可以提高20%的广告，想想这些数量与相关性的准则，问问自己你会得出什么推论。
Next time you see an advertisement saying some product could be up to 20% more effective, think of these maxims of quantity and relevance, and ask yourself what inferences you are being led to draw.
“这就好像你在驾驶手动挡汽车，”美国东北大学的心理学家朱迪丝·霍尔说，“而且如果你开始想得太多，你就不记得自己在做什么。”
"It's as if you're driving a stick shift," says Judith Hall, a psychologist at Northeastern University, "and if you start thinking about it too much, you can't remember what you're doing."
如果你说的就是这些，那你所说的并没有什么意思。
If that's all you're saying, you're not saying anything interesting.
坦白地说，如果我们还停留在说“嗨”、“你好”、“最近怎么样”和“发生了什么”这样的常规问候语中，你就不敢再问更多的私人问题了。
Honestly, if we got stuck in the rut of "hi", "hello", "how are you?" and "what's going on?", you will fail to give the afraid to ask more personal questions.
在路上，他遇到一只麻雀对他说：“我的朋友，你为什么这么伤心呢？”
On the road, he met a sparrow that said to him, "Why are you so sad, my friend?"
最后他说：“哦，你这个讨厌的大胡子倒霉蛋儿，你这个花斑傻瓜，你这个饥饿的捕鼠者，你在想什么呢？”
At last he said, "Oh, you wretched beard-cleaner, you piebald fool, you hungry mouse-hunter, what can you be thinking of?"
你说的行为方面是什么意思？
他给了囚犯一个机会，说：“如果你有什么想要辩护的，就说吧。”
He offered the prisoner a chance, saying, "If thou canst say aught in thy behalf, speak."
“这不关我的事，”叫花子说，“你为什么想要另找一个丈夫呢？”
"That is no business of mine," said the fiddler, "why should you wish for another husband?"
“怎么。”她回答说，“我不知道这有什么害处；你应该告诉我的。”
"Why," answered she, "I did not know there was any harm in it; you should have told me."
“我不对你盘诘，出于什么原因或以何种方式，你堕入了深渊，或者宁可说，你登上了耻辱的刑台，我正是在那儿见到你的。”他说。
"I ask not wherefore, nor how, thou hast fallen into the pit, or say, rather, thou hast ascended to the pedestal of infamy, on which I found thee." He said.
当你第一次与某人见面时，当你说出你的名字或和对方握手时，对方已经对你是什么样的人形成了看法。
When you meet someone for the first time, by the time you have stated your name or shaken hands, the other person has already formed an opinion about the kind of person you are.
帮你赢得人们信任的不是你说过什么而是你做过什么。
It isn't what you have said but what have done helps you earn people's trust.
你可能知道什么是移动电话，但我说的移动电话是一个挂在天花板上的精致的装饰品，随着每一次呼吸轻轻地移动。
You probably know what a mobile is, but the mobile I'm talking about is a delicate object of decoration hanging from the ceiling and moving gently with every breath.
你可以了解到1532年发生了什么，以及为什么超过90%的秘鲁人说西班牙语。
You can learn what happened in 1532 and why over 90% of Peruvians speak Spanish.
“我没有什么东西可以给你，”这位悲哀的母亲说，“但是，我可以为你走到世界的尽头去！”
"I have nothing to give," said the afflicted mother, "but I will go to the world's end for you!"
等一下。你说的黄金是什么意思？
“等一下，”妈妈说，“你出生的时候什么都没穿。”
"Wait a minute," Mom said, "You didn't wear anything when you were born."
如果你还没有听到打电话的人说了什么，更礼貌的说法是：“对不起。你能再说一遍吗？”而不是简单地说：“什么？”
If you have not heard what a caller said, it is much more polite to say "I'm sorry. Could you say this again, please?" than to simply say "What?"
当他们谈到这个国家人民的生活时，老人生气地说：“你知道我为什么这么穷吗？这是因为我们的国王！他没有为我们做任何事。”
When they talked about people's life in the country, the old man became angry and said, "do you know why I'm so poor? It's because of our king! He has done nothing for us."
“我亲爱的儿子，那个地方没有什么宝藏，”父亲平静地说，“但我认为你已经找到了自己未来的道路。”
"There wasn't any treasure in that place, my dear son," the father said quietly, "But I think you have found you own future path."
“吉娜，你为什么这么想？你有自己的长处，不是吗？”乌鸦说。
"Jina, why do you think so? You have your own strengths, don't you?" said the crow.
一天，卖供猫食用的肉的商贩对他说：“你为什么不停止为人类看病，转而为动物看病呢？我相信你对动物的了解比大多数兽医还要多。你写了一本关于猫的好书。我会把所有带着生病的猫狗的人都送到你这里来。”
One day, the cat's-meat-man said to him, "Why don't you stop being a doctor for people and become a doctor for animals instead? I'm sure that you know a lot about animals-more than most vets. You wrote a wonderful book about cats. I'd send all the people with sick dogs or cats to you."
一天，卖供猫食用的肉的商贩对他说：“你为什么不停止为人类看病，转而为动物看病呢？我相信你对动物的了解比大多数兽医还要多。你写了一本关于猫的好书。我会把所有带着生病的猫狗的人都送到你这里来。”
One day, the cat's-meat-man said to him, "Why don't you stop being a doctor for people and become a doctor for animals instead? I'm sure that you know a lot about animals-more than most vets. You wrote a wonderful book about cats. I'd send all the people with sick dogs or cats to you."
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