影响你生活的决定应该是那些你在考虑了各种可能性，并选择了最适合你的道路之后做出的决定。
Decisions that affect your life should be your decisions—decisions you make after you've considered various alternatives and chosen the path that suits you best.
首先你要决定的是自己应该提出多少期望薪金。先去查一查你所在的行业的收入情况，再决定一个能被雇主接受的目标薪资。
To prepare a counteroffer you will first need to decide what your desired income level is, and then research your career field and locale to determine if this goal is even feasible.
你可能会被下逐客令（比如：你的房东决定不再把房子出租给你而决定自己住了，或者卖出这套房子），那么你就得另寻他处了。
You could be evicted (say, if the landlord decides not to renew your lease, or to sell the home) and may need to seek another place to live.
但是，这忽略了一个事实，即你在这种情况下是有决定权的，你可以决定走还是留。
But, this ignores the fact that you have agency in the situation: you can decide whether to stay or not.
无论你的梦想是什么，决定你生活质量的最终会是你的决定和行动的质量。
Whatever your dreams, it is the quality of your decisions and your actions that ultimately determines the quality of your life.
一旦你决定寄出的话，你需要决定你的清单上包括哪些名单，挑选哪种类型的商务贺卡，还有怎么样让信封看起来有意思。
Once you have decided to send, you then have to determine who to include on your list, what kind of business greeting card to choose, and how to address the envelope.
你的态度决定了你对待挑战的反应，是上升还是坠落，也决定了在充满目的的生活中你能获得什么样的经验。
Your attitude determines how you respond to challenges, whether you rise or fall, what experience can be gained from living a life filled with purpose.
“你的决定决定了你的生活，”这个说法是正确的。但是更重要的事实是你决定了你的决定。
The saying is true, “your decisions decide your life,” but a more important truth is that you decide your decisions.
举例说，你可能认为今天早晨是你做出喝茶或是喝咖啡的决定，但实际上这个决定在你意识到之前很久可能就已经确定。
You may have thought you decided whether to have tea or coffee this morning, for example, but the decision may have been made long before you were aware of it.
举例说，你可能认为今天早晨是你做出喝茶或是喝咖啡的决定，但实际上这个决定在你意识到之前很久可能就已经确定。
You may have thought you decided whether to have tea or coffee this morning for example but the decision may have been made long before you were aware of it.
你需要做的只是来做一个决定，一个你将要集中精力提高管理时间的技能的决定。
What you need to do is make the decision, the decision to work on your Time Management skills.
暂时不要做任何决定性的行动或开始，即使你觉得外界压力迫使你做出决定。
Don't make any firm decisions or initiations yet, even if you feel pressured to do so.
在这一阶段，寻找伴侣的意念使你开始做出各种高风险的决定——这些决定是你之前想都没想过的。
At this stage, you begin making risky decisions with the intent to find someone - decisions that you would have never even considered before.
每天，在无数的对话和决定中你都会遇到“桥”——但是选择是否跳桥完全取决于你，你怎么能逐渐退缩不自己做决定呢？
Every day, you'll encounter the bridge in countless decisions and conversations-but the choice of whether to jump or not is completely up to you. How can you back away and make your own choices?
一旦你那样做了一两次之后，你就会决定继续做下去，你决定继续的原因并不是为了追求刺激，而是因为你相信你在做一件很重要的事情。
Once you've done that once or twice and you decide to stick with it, you are sticking with it not because you are chasing adrenaline, it's because you believe what you are doing is important.
对你所做的决策持怀疑态度。即使你最终作出了一个决定，但十分有可能因为你缺乏自信，你不相信你做出对现有情况最有利的决定。
No trust in Decisions Made: Even if you finally do make a choice, it is very possible that because of your low self-confidence, you have no trust that your decision was the best for the circumstance.
真正的朋友不会在乎你是否还留有自己的童贞——他们会尊重你的决定，不管这决定是什么。
True friends don't really care whether a person is a virgin - they will respect your decisions, no matter what.
记住：你的态度决定你的感觉，你的感觉决定你的行动，你的行动决定你的收获。
Remember that your attitude determines your feelings, your feelings determine your actions, and your actions determine your results.
你做什么样的决定，采取什么的行动会决定你最终的生活质量。
It is the quality of your decisions and your actions that ultimately determines the quality of your life.
你的样式是由神根据他的目的决定的，是独有全能至高的神决定的。所以你不该反感或拒绝。
Your shape was sovereignly determined by God for his purpose, so you shouldn't resent it or reject it.
当你花掉太多的时间去分析一个决定的时候，你通常会对你最终所做出的决定感到不满。
When you spend too much time analyzing a decision, you are usually less satisfied with whatever decision you end up making.
首先，你可以选择那些风险小但是你却经常交给其他人的决定来开始，这次你自己做决定。
At first, you pick decision which present low risks but which you usually tend to pass on to others, and you make them on your own.
你未能遵从好的步骤，你做了个糟糕的决定，关于你如何决定运行这个还是没问题的。
You failed to follow good procedures and you made a lousy decision on how you decided that this was still okay to run.
如果没有明确的选择以至于你很难决定，那么本来就没有明确的选择，你可以随便选一个，并且决定不后悔。
If you are having a hard time deciding something because there is no obvious choice, then there is no obvious choice.Just pick one and decide to have no regrets.
如果没有明确的选择以至于你很难决定，那么本来就没有明确的选择，你可以随便选一个，并且决定不后悔。
If you are having a hard time deciding something because there is no obvious choice, then there is no obvious choice. Just pick one and decide to have no regrets.
你可以选择你需要的RAM大小，同时这也决定了附带的硬盘存储量，中央处理器的计算速度，有时也决定了最大带宽。
You choose the amount of RAM you want, and that determines the associated hard disk storage, CPU power, and, sometimes, maximum bandwidth.
根据你内心里是个什么人，你做出了决定，那些决定决定了你的生活，如果一个人里面不改变，你的生活永远也不会改变！
And you're making those decisions, which are deciding your life, based on the person that you are "on the inside," and if the person on the inside doesn't change, then your life can never change!
你可以因为你相信胚胎没有道德地位而反对布什的对干细胞研究的决定，也可以因你认为胚胎有道德地位而反对奥巴马的决定。
You can object to Bush's stem-cell decision because you believe embryos have no moral standing, or to Obama's decision because you think they do.
一旦你已经决定了你想要做的事，一旦你决定了你想要专注于这就件事，那么接下来你要做的就是采取行动。
Once you’ve decided to do something, and decided that you will focus, the next step is to take action.
一旦你已经决定了你想要做的事，一旦你决定了你想要专注于这就件事，那么接下来你要做的就是采取行动。
Once you’ve decided to do something, and decided that you will focus, the next step is to take action.
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