当你想到学者、培训师和管理者普遍强调在工作中培养亲密人际关系的重要性时，你会感到惊讶。
This is surprising when you consider the prevailing emphasis by scholars and trainers and managers on the importance of cultivating close interpersonal relationships at work.
在泰国，敲手指、拍手，或者大喊“服务员！”会让招待你的人、同餐者、服务员，特别是你自己感到尴尬！
In Thailand, clicking the fingers, clapping your hands or just shouting "Waiter!" will embarrass your hosts, fellow diners, the waiter himself, and most of all, you!
你可能会称我为素食者。但科学家称我为草食动物，因为我只吃叶子、草和其它植物。
You probably would call me a vegetarian. But scientists call me a herbivore because I only eat leaves, grass, and other plants.
在泰国，敲手指、拍手，或者大喊“服务员！”会让东道主、同餐者、服务员，最主要的是你自己感到尴尬！
In Thailand, clicking the fingers, clapping your hands, or just shouting "Waiter!" will embarrass your hosts, fellow diners, the waiter himself and, most of all, you!
我认为一开始要有合适的消费者，出售好啤酒，保持质量，最重要的是，即使你可能会觉得很累，也要保持良好的态度。
I think having the right customers to start with, selling the right beer, keeping it good, and most of all, keeping a good attitude yourself, even though you probably feel very tired.
如果阅读能力或听力变了个戏法，也许你会觉得自己就是一个语言学习者。
If reading or listening does a trick, maybe you feel like you're a verbal learner.
如果你已经为你的模型启用了自动认领特性，潜在的所有者会变成这个任务的所有者，而不需要执行其他操作。
If you have the auto claim feature enabled for your model, the potential owner becomes the owner of this task without further action.
“在SBC 中你会感到翻天覆地的变化，”韦德·伯勒森说，他是俄克拉荷马州的一位牧师，他的博客“光辉和真理与你同在”是新开尔文主义者的集结点。
"You have a seismic shift in the SBC," says Wade Burleson, an Oklahoma pastor whose "Grace and Truth to You" blog is a rallying point for the neo-Calvinists.
诚然我们每个人都会不一样，可能你会认为行为者和观察者之间的区别可以忽略不计。
Of course we all differ and you might imagine that the differences between actor and observer would cancel out.
当你买了基金，你会跟其他很多投资者将钱放在一起，这样你(作为团体的一部分)就可以雇佣专业的管理者来为你选择特定的有价证券。
When you buy a mutual fund, you are pooling your money with a number of other investors, which enables you (as part of a group) to pay a professional manager to select specific securities for you.
欧洲人的态度是只关心土耳其人以外的那些被害者，我发现很难相信你会宽恕这样的态度。
I find it difficult to believe that you condone the European attitude of being concerned only when people other than Turks are murdered.
而避免这个话题，你会让他和你自己者推动分享他的最终人生转折的机会。
By avoiding the topic, you could be depriving him — and yourself — of the opportunity to share this final life transition.
如果你是一个能够改变的管理者而非改变的抵制者他们也会接受改变，使其成为他们的优点。
If you are a change leader instead of a change resister, they, too, will embrace change and use it to their own advantage.
这种情况下你离开了施虐者时，你会感到愤怒、悲伤以及遗憾都是很正常的事情。
It is normal for you to feel angry and sad, as well as regret that you left the abuser.
敏捷实践者会告诉你，在敏捷中，范围可以随时改变。
Agile practitioners will tell you that in agile, scope can change at any time.
你会坐在一个小隔间里，在那里你只能看到一个表示你的“卡车”的控制箱，以及实验者。
You are to be seated in a cubicle from where you'll only be able to see the control box for your 'truck' and the experimenter.
短跑者比长跑者更多地使用这块肌肉，不过照我的观察如果后腿腱紧张也会限制你的速度。
Sprinters pull this muscle more than distance runners, but as I discovered, even straining your hamstring can limit your ability to run fast.
当你迷路了，你会问你的追随者方向，而不是使用GPS全球定位系统。
Then you are lost, and instead of using teh OnStar GPS, you ask your followers for directions.
第三个受荣者导演斯特芬·索德伯格谈到了父母的期望，“如果你有一个孩子，你会希望他们找到他们喜欢的职业，”他说。
A third honoree, the director Steven Soderbergh, brought up parental expectations. "If you have a child, you hope that they'll find something that they love to do," he said.
看着这些艰苦劳动者的眼睛，你会找到一种与众不同的感觉，这不容易在别处感受到。
Looking into the eyes of hard workers, one can find a unique range of feelings, which is not easy to find anywhere else.
你会提升受者的情绪，亦增加了他或她拥有一个幸运日的几率。
You'll enhance the mood of the recipient, too, boosting his or her odds of a lucky day.
如果让在做出聘用决定之前，只允许你提问应聘者两、三个问题，你会问什么？
Q. If you could ask job candidates only two or three questions to decide whether to hire them, what would they be?
当你盯着多个目标的时候，你会摊薄自己的注意力和精力，而这两者是达到目标的过程中最重要的因素。
When you try to take on many goals at once, you're spreading thin your focus and energy - the two critical components for achieving a goal.
因为你会突然发现，在恐怖片中，年轻的女性角色不再是充当受害者的花瓶，而是幸存下来的英雄。
All of a sudden you have a horror film that has a younger female character who is a survivor and a heroine as opposed to a victim.
思考设定“目标”“来戒烟和对某人承诺你会戒烟”，这两者之间的区别。
Think of the difference between setting a “goal” to quit smoking and “promising” someone you love you’ll quit smoking.
当你执行了标有“危险：强电击”的电击，使得学习者安静下来之后，你会怎么想？
What would you think when the learner went quiet after you apparently administered a shock labelled on the board "Danger: Severe Shock"?
你会很清楚的发现你不是控制者而是对所有发生事情的感知者。
It will be clear to you that you are not the controller but the awareness of all that is going on.
我们立即挑选了13个奥斯卡新主持人的有力竞争者，如果你是带有辛辣点评的合理建议的爱好者，你会喜欢的。
We quickly came up with our 13 possible contenders for a new Oscars host, and if you're a fan of legitimate Suggestions peppered with sarcastic ones, you're going to love it.
反驳者：如果你会永远爱我，就等到我准备好了的时候吧，那并没什么不同。
The Come-back: If you will always love me, then it won't make a difference if we wait until I'm ready.
反驳者：如果你会永远爱我，就等到我准备好了的时候吧，那并没什么不同。
The Come-back: If you will always love me, then it won't make a difference if we wait until I'm ready.
应用推荐