目标不会帮你做激励自己的事——它们只会让你因为没实现它们而感到内疚。
Goals don't do that for you - they just make you feel guilty that you haven't gotten them done.
然而,为过去的行为内疚、自责都是错误的,当你在忙着自责的时候,它不会让你学到什么。
However, perceiving past actions as mistakes implies guilt and blame, and it is not possible to learn anything meaning while you are engaged in blaming.
如果你希望过去的事情不再将你压垮,你就必须把它敞开给一位值得信赖、不会让你感到内疚或羞愧的人。
If you want the things of the past not to weight you down any more, you must be open about it to a trustworthy person who will not make you feel guilty or ashamed.
但是如果你理解爱的定义,就不会因为这些控告而感到内疚了。
But if you understand the definition of love, you will not feel guilty anymore if you've been wrongfullly accused.
但是如果你理解爱的定义,就不会因为这些控告而感到内疚了。
But if you understand the definition of love, you will not feel guilty anymore if you've been wrongfullly accused.
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