不过也许你注意到,并非每个人都会还(音:huan)你一个微笑。
As you'll have noticed, though, not everyone does smile back.
99%的时候她会回你一个微笑,然后说“我知道”,这样就可以继续和她交谈。
99% of the time she will smile back, and when she does say "I knew it" and proceed to start a conversation with her.
心理学家莫妮卡·摩尔的研究论证了一个常识:它可以在拥挤的房间里吸引别人的注意力,“眼神交流和保持微笑”可以展现你的亲切和自信。
It can catch someone's attention in a crowded room, "Eye contact and smile" can signal availability and confidence, a common-sense notion supported in studies by psychologist Monica Moore.
例如,如果你微笑,你的声音会听起来温暖和友好,相反,如果你脸上有一个生气的表情,它会让你听起来不愉快。
For example, if you smile, your voice will sound warm and friendly, just the opposite, if you have an angry look on your face, it can make you sound unpleasant.
一天,一个魔术师来到这个人跟前,对他说:“我可以让你的儿子高兴,让他一展愁眉露出微笑,但你必须为告诉他这个秘密付出巨大代价。”
One day, a magician came to the man and said to him, "I can make your son happy and turn his frowns into smiles, but you must pay me a great price for telling him the secret."
你会发现礼貌的话语和一个微笑会解决问题。
You'll find that polite words and a smile will resolve a situation.
如果你看到有人,给他们一个微笑或问候。
然后,在第69家商店,一个60岁的爷爷微笑着问小男孩:“你为什么要买上帝?”
Then, at the sixty-ninth store, a 60-year-old grandpa smiled and asked the little boy "Why do you want to buy God?"
他只是微笑着说:“在某一个问题方面,难道你不会有更好的主意吗?”
He only said with a smile, "Won't it be better for your ideas on a certain problem?"
当一个人感到来自他或她的老师或父母的压力,你的微笑就像阳光破云,你的微笑可以帮助他或她意识到一切都是充满希望的,世界上还有欢乐。
When someone feels stressed from his or her teachers or parents, your smile is like the sun breaking through the clouds, and your smile can help him or her realize that all is hopeful that there is still joy in the world.
如果你要相信一个没有身体的微笑,那是根本做不到的为什么呢?
If you try to imagine a smile with no body at all, it can't be done. Why?
微笑是转变面试方向的一个好的开始,下面还有一些你能采取的步骤。
While smiling is a good start to turning an interview around, there are other steps you can take.
“你可以带一个回家吃,”柜台后的女服务生带着奶油般甜甜的微笑。
"You can take one home," says the woman behind the counter, with a smile as sweet as butterscotch.
即使你到了国外,不能说当地的语言,一个微笑就能表达好多好多。
Even if you go abroad and don't speak the language, a smile will carry you a long way.
一个60秒钟的微笑将有希望使你感觉更轻松,并且内心不再压抑。
It's a 60 second laughter experiment that will hopefully have you feeling lighter, and a little less stressed on the inside.
我明白了…你遇到的所有的人都应该给他们一个微笑。
I've learned... That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
谁都不能保证一定会到达顶峰,但是你总可以停下脚步,深吸一口气,给自己一个微笑,然后去欣赏沿途的风景。
There’s never any guarantee that you’ll get to the top, but you always have the ability to stop, take in a deep breath, smile and enjoy the view-whether it’s miles of wilderness or two feet of fog.
在这个冬天,你的一个微笑,你的一些话语,足以让世博会的热情温暖我们的校园、我们的城市。
In this winter, your smile and some words are enough to enable passion of the Exposition warm our campus and our city.
到处有微笑着挥手致意的人,如果有一个国度能让你心醉,那一定就是这里了。
And always the waving and the smiling. Surely, if there was a country to steal your heart, this was it.
对着镜子练习微笑,直到有一个是你觉得舒服和自信的,也许这听起来有点奇怪。
As weird as it sounds, practice smiling in the mirror until you get one that you are comfortable and confident with.
好好生活吧,这样,当你要死去的时候,只有你是一个人在微笑,和周围的人却在哭泣。
Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling, and everyone around you is crying.
如果她并没有回一个微笑,你就可以说“我想我猜错了”,然后走开。
If she does not offer a reciprocal smile, simply say "I guess not" and walk away.
如果你在匆忙赶路,可能只是简单地点头,然后继续赶路;但是你也可能决定花点时间,在走之前回她一个微笑,重复这个祝福。
If you're in a hurry, you might nod curtly and be on your way; but you could decide to take your time, smile back and repeat the message before you go.
如果雨后还是雨,如果忧伤之后还是忧伤。请让我们从容面对这离别之后的离别。微笑地去寻找一个不可能出现的你!
If rain remains after rain and sorrow remains after sorrow, please take those farewells easy, and turn to smilingly look for yourself who is never to appear.
庆祝你的成功:当有一个使你怀疑自己的事儿实际上比你期望的好得多的时候,不要仅仅点头微笑,然后立刻去做下一件事儿。
Celebrate your successes: When a situation in which you doubted yourself turns out better than you expected, don't just nod and smile and move immediately on to the next thing.
我能保证,一个大大的微笑和一句简单的“我的名字是某某,你叫什么”是你让谈话开始起来的所需的一切。
I can guarantee that a big smile and a simple "my name's blank, what's yours" will be all you'll need to get the ball rolling.
我能保证,一个大大的微笑和一句简单的“我的名字是某某,你叫什么”是你让谈话开始起来的所需的一切。
I can guarantee that a big smile and a simple "my name's blank, what's yours" will be all you'll need to get the ball rolling.
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