我的幸福别人带不走，别人带走的不是我的幸福。
I do not take the well-being of other people go, I do not take away other peoples well-being.
弗雷德里克森告诉我：“这不是欧洲人的幸福感所能比拟的。”
Fredrickson tells me, "It's that it's not matched by eudaimonic well-being."
我看到人们浪费时间最多的地方，也是他们降低生产率和效率的地方，而且最终他们的幸福也会在“是”与“不是”之间徘徊。
Where I see people waste the most amount of time, where they reduce their productivity and efficiency and ultimately their happiness is from vacillating between just two words: "Yes" or "No."
我和露西被领养后，在一个家庭呆了5年，那是我呆的时间最长的地方。那不是个幸福的家。
The longest I stayed in one place was when Lucy and I were fostered for five years - but it wasn't a happy house and when I dared to speak out, my bags were packed and I was gone.
在这个“寻找幸福”的课堂里，我在唤醒一种叫“乐观”的能量。我希望，至少，这样的疗方也算是良药一剂，如果这不是治疗，那我为何可怜到要来这里寻找解决中年危机的方法呢。
I summoned a senseof optimism about this ’happiness’ class and hoped that it might at least be asalve, if not a cure, for how poorly I’d been handling the approach into middleage.
我既是幸福的，也不是不幸的，既是兴奋的，也是沮丧的，在最为矛盾的和谐中，我被快乐与绝望压垮。
I am simultaneously happy and unhappy, exalted and depressed, overcome by both pleasure and despair in the most contradictory harmonies.
那时我的生活被不知过了多少量的烟酒给淹没了——它们当然不是幸福的产物！
This time it was littered with ridiculous amounts of cigarettes and alcohol–not exactly a prescription for happiness!
“我不知道他们是不是真的幸福，”她继续说道，“有时候我会想要和他们一样的生活，但是我不能和一个我不爱的人一起生活。”
"I don't know if they are really happy," she said. "There were times I wanted to have a good life like them, but I can't live with a person I don't love."
服务别人，而不是被别人服务，正是我幸福的来源。
It's about serving others, not being served. That's where my happiness comes from.
我对你了解的时间并不是太久，但你看起来酷极了，我不太相信你与男友在一块是幸福的。
I haven't known you for that long, but you seem really cool, and you haven't convinced me that you're happy with your guy.
如果我百分之百的诚实，我会承认在大学里学到的最有用的技能可能就是怎样跟女孩子搭讪（这当然是一种通往幸福和成功的重要技能，但并不是我应该去大学里学习的东西。）
Lately, I’ve been simultaneously using less and less of what I learned in school while discovering more and more skills that are vital to success which were never even offered in school!
如果你的身后也有这样的一双眼睛，我想，你是幸福的，不是吗？
If you have this behind a pair of eyes, I think you'll be happy, is not it?
我开始明白追寻幸福并不是无足轻重的想法，它值得被尊敬，也是必要的。而且很多人甚至不会想到这件事。
I've come to believe that seeking happiness is not a frivolous pursuit. It's honorable and necessary. And most people forget even to think about it.
我知道你听到这些一定会很高兴，你很愿意看到我们十分幸福的，不是吗？
I know you are very happy, you'd like to see that we are happy, is that right?
“幸福不是拥有你想要的，而是珍惜你所拥有的。”我还是小孩儿时，就记得这句话。这绝对是真理，至理。
"Happiness is not having what you want, but having what you have. " That's a quote that I remember from a little boy. It's true, very true.
为你落第一滴泪，故事到最后总会落幕，我真心的付出却不是你要的幸福。
Trails in a drop of tears for you, the story to the end always end, I sincerely pay is not the happiness you want.
在我眼里幸福其实应该来说挺简单的，它其实并不取决于你到底有多少的钱？你是否家财万贯，这些都不是幸福应该有的样子。
In my eyes, happiness should be very simple, it does not depend on you how many money? Whether you Jiacaiwanguan, these are not the happiness should be.
生活黑客(至少对我而言)就是一位十字军战士，不是为了财富征战，而是为了更好的、更为幸福的、更品德高尚的生活。
Life hacking (at least to me) is a crusade not for riches, but a better, happier, more virtuous life.
此外，我完全相信，幸福很大程度上取决于我们想要的而不是父母想要的东西。有些父母总是活活。
Besides, I'm fully convinced that being happy largely depends on what we want rather than what parents want. Some parents always live.
倒不是因为我感谢从那里得到了幸福才这样说的。
It is not of gratitude for the happiness I have to thank the place for that I'm saying all this.
我希望一个幸福的结局，就像我文章标题所暗示的，顺便说一句，整篇文章只有那个标题不是我写的。
I want the happy ending implied by the title to my article, which is, incidentally, the only part of the article that I didn't actually write.
当时我悟出最大的幸福不是真把一块太妃糖送进嘴里，而是吃前对它目不转睛的凝望。
And when I discovered that the greatest pITch happiness was not in actually eating a toffee but in gazing at IT beforehand.
我知道有几个人他们的幸福水平在下降中而不是上升中，这也是为什么我没有更快到这里的原因之一。
I was aware that several individuals were dropping in the level of their happiness and not coming up, which is one of the reasons why I didn't get here sooner.
留给你的孩子美德和仁慈，而不是财产。只有这样才能给他们带来幸福，这是我的经验。
Leave virtue and kindness to your children instead of property — only this can bring happiness to them. This is my experience.
我必须说，人生中我们能学到以及教给孩子们的最重要的道理就是，生活并不是永远幸福无忧的天堂。
I must say that the biggest lesson you can learn in life, or teach your children, is that life is not castles in the skies, happily ever after.
原谅不是说“我不介意你曾经伤害过我”，而是要说，“我不会让你的所作所为毁掉我今后的幸福生活。”
Forgiveness is not saying, "What you did to me is okay. " It is saying, "I'm not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.
我之所以称我们的世界为平面国，不是因为我们就是这么称呼它的，而是为了更清晰地向你们描述它的自然状态，我的朋友们，你们多么幸福，可以生活在三维空间。
I call our world Flatland, not because we call it so, but to make its nature clearer to you, my happy readers, who are privileged to live in Space.
我之所以称我们的世界为平面国，不是因为我们就是这么称呼它的，而是为了更清晰地向你们描述它的自然状态，我的朋友们，你们多么幸福，可以生活在三维空间。
I call our world Flatland, not because we call it so, but to make its nature clearer to you, my happy readers, who are privileged to live in Space.
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