你也可以用这些方法来改变其他不好的行为。
不像一些东亚国家，打嗝在西方也被认为是一种不好的行为。
Unlike in some other parts of East Asia, it is also considered a bad manner to burp in the West.
你应该知道，并不是所有的邻居都会遵循你的要求，有些邻居可能会做出不好的行为。
You should know that not all neighbors are going to follow your requirement, and some may act in a bad manner.
“当你开始轻视不好的行为时”，贝尔想，“它就开始了。”
"It starts," Bell thinks, "when you begin to overlook bad manners."
它只是一个时机问题。但还有很多说法就是指的不好的行为。
It's just an issue of timing. But there are many devil expressions that do refer to bad behavior.
与其等着人们的天性变化，让我们通过承担义务来控制那些不好的行为。
Instead of waiting around for human nature to change, let's start to rein in bad behavior by promoting accountability.
一天，上帝正在往下看地球，他看到了所有不好的行为正在继续着。
One day God was looking down on Earth, and saw all of the mischievous behavior that was going on.
眼镜阿姨表扬了他们高尚的行为，但同样也批评了他们不好的行为。
Glasses Aunt praised their noble deeds, but also she blamed their bad conducts.
一项芬兰研究显示，好的睡眠可以简单的降低孩子们过度活动和不好的行为。
Simply getting a good night's sleep could reduce levels of hyperactivity and bad behaviour among children, a Finnish study reports.
这里你要面对的一个难题是如何对你在步骤2中意识的不好的行为找相应的替代行为？
The challenge here is to come up with an alternative strategy for what is not working in the behaviors you have identified in Step 2.
寓言的寓意：1说谎是一种不好的行为，它既不尊重别人，也会失去别人对自己的信任。
The moral of the fable: 1 lying is a bad behavior, and it is neither respect for others, and lose of trust.
当一些孩子很安静且表现得很好时，容易被忽视。所以，他们表现出不好的行为以获得注意力。
Some children are ignored when they are quiet and behaving well, so they may behave badly to get attention.
然而，如果人们生活在恶劣的环境下，就可能会从周围学到不好的行为，也无法专心工作和学习。
However, if people live in a bad environment, he may learn some bad behavior from the people around and couldn't work or study well.
你将不仅仅要做一个积极地选择而不犯老毛病，你还要选择一个更好的行为去替代原来不好的行为。
You will be not only making an active choice to not do the old action you will also be making a choice to perform a better, alternative action in its place.
因为他们能从不好的行为中得到满足或收获，所以很清楚的让他们看到好行为比坏行为更有满足感。
Because they get something satisfying or rewarding from their bad behavior, they need to see that good behavior is more satisfying than bad behavior.
他们无法理解为什么看起来华尔街那些不好的行为却受到了嘉奖，而普通民众努力工作却没有回报；
They don't understand why it seems like bad behavior on Wall Street is rewarded but hard work on Main Street isn't; or why Washington has been unable or unwilling to solve any of our problems.
他们不能理解，为什么华尔街那些不好的行为好像能受到嘉奖，而普通民众的努力工作却得不到回报；
They don't understand why it seems like bad behavior on Wall Street is rewarded, but hard work on Main Street isn't;
他说，“在我公司的观念中，有一段风流韵事只是个不好的行为罢了，就像酒后开车损害你的名声一样”。
"In the culture of my firm, having affairs is just bad behavior, like drunk driving-something that could harm your reputation," he says.
奥，是的，我确实听见你吼了。不过我想我可以帮你改正你的不好的行为，如果你知道我说的啥意思的话？
Oh yes, I did hear you. Well I'm sure I can help you clean up your act - if you're sure you know what that means?
“纵容效应”：研究者发现，当消费者购买了环保商品之后，他们将建立起一种道德凭据，从而纵容接下来不好的行为。
The 'licensing effect' : Researchers have found that buying green can establish the moral credentials that license subsequent bad behaviour. Photograph: Martin Godwin.
比如父母对于我们儿时的一些不好的行为发了大脾气，这很可能导致我们根本无法回忆起当时我们究竟做了什么。
The memory of a parent's anger at our childish misdemeanour might completely block out the memory of what we actually did.
如果以后再遇到孩子不让别人玩，别人玩就哭闹的话，你不要去哄她，让她哭够了，再告诉她这是一个多么不好的行为。
Let children play with other people playing on the crying, you do not go to coax her, let her cry enough, and then tell her how this is a kind of undesirable behavior.
孔子说：“品德修养不能长期坚持，学习不能持之以恒，听到正义的呼声不能伸张，不好的行为不能改正，这些都是我深深感到忧虑的。”
Confucius said: "Virtue not cultivated, learning not expounded, not able to uphold righteousness when the situation arise, not able to correct what is wrong, these are conduct that worries me."
孔子说：“品德修养不能长期坚持，学习不能持之以恒，听到正义的呼声不能伸张，不好的行为不能改正，这些都是我深深感到忧虑的。”
Confucius said: "Virtue not cultivated, learning not expounded, not able to uphold righteousness when the situation arise, not able to correct what is wrong, these are conduct that worries me."
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