You can either tell them what to do (" command and control ") or set things up so they can figure it out for themselves (" self-organization ").
您可以告诉他们要做什么(“命令和控制”)，也可以搭建一个舞台，让他们自己发挥(“自我组织”)。
My children became his devoted helpers, and he taught them many things-about trees and birds and insects, but also about work and self-respect, dignity and trust.
我的孩子们成了他的热心助手，而他教给了他们很多东西——关于树，鸟和昆虫，还有劳动，自重，自尊和信任。
Western parents worry a lot about their children's self-esteem. But as a parent, one of the worst things you can do for your child's self-esteem is to let them give up.
西方父母很担心孩子的自尊，但是作为父母，你对孩子的自尊做的最坏的事情就是让他们丢失自尊。
Chua's lesson: "[a] s a parent, one of the worst things you can do for your child's self-esteem is to let them give up."
蔡教授的经验教训：“作为家长，你做的最伤害孩子自尊的事就是让他们放弃。”
If we confuse them for being Self or that we are doing these things, or if we think it is my mind, there is again no real panna, only thinking and delusion.
如果我们误认为它们是“我”或认为是我们在做这些事情，或者如果我们认为这是我的心，那也是没有真正的智慧，只是思考和妄想。
Status Offline Whatever terrible things may have happened to you, only one thing allows them to damage your core self, and that is continued belief in them.
不论对你可能发生什么可怕的事情，唯一有一样东西能让它们伤害到你的核心自我。
When they do sweet things, leave them, else they become self conscious.
当他们在做可爱的事情，听任他们，否则他们会产生自我意识。
They do things that give them satisfaction and a sense of self-worth and refrain from actions that bring self-censure.
他们在做事中获得满足和实现自我价值，同时克制自我谴责的行为。
The girls in my class seemed to know everything; they loved to whisper about things which they knew perfectly well were not nice. It made them blush, yet, at the same tame, look quite self-satisfied.
她们似乎什么都知道，也爱偷偷的谈论她们明知不正当的事——这些事叫她们的脸红红的而显出得意。
Their intense sense of self leads them to strive for perfection in all things and to be quite concerned with their public image.
由于自我意识强烈，每件事都想做到尽善尽美，特别爱面子。
Do not feel bad for the elderly because elderly people involved or worried about those things and what to do bad things for them to do, that would hurt the elderly's self-esteem and health.
不要因心疼老人受累或担心老人做不好那些事情而什么事都替他们去做，那样会伤害老人的自尊心和健康的。
Do not feel bad for the elderly because elderly people involved or worried about those things and what to do bad things for them to do, that would hurt the elderly's self-esteem and health.
不要因心疼老人受累或担心老人做不好那些事情而什么事都替他们去做，那样会伤害老人的自尊心和健康的。
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