If you don't know what to do with your hands, think about the message you want to communicate. As in ordinary conversation, your hands should simply help emphasize or reinforce your verbal message.

如果你不知道自己的手该怎样做，考虑一下你想传达的信息，就像在日常交谈中，你的手用来帮助强调或加强文字语言信息。

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Instead, you'll be most effective if you can simply help the conflicted parties find some common ground on which to stand.

不过，只要你帮助对抗的双方找到一些可以依托的共同点，你就会是最有影响力的。

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Instead, you'll be most effective if you can simply help the conflicted parties find some common ground on which to stand.

不过，只要你帮助对抗的双方找到一些可以依托的共同点，你就会是最有影响力的。

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