It's not what you say, it's the way that you say it.
问题不在于你说什么，而在于你怎么说。
What I would say about this one, cause it's most complicated, I would say, in the history of humanity.
我想说的是，因为它是人类历史上最复杂的。
For instance, suppose you say you would really love to have a cup of coffee right now, and I say "there's a shop around the corner".
例如，假设你说，你现在真的很想喝杯咖啡，而我说“拐角处就有家咖啡店”。
Because the more that you get them to say yes now, the more likely they are to say yes in the future.
因为你让他们现在说“是”的次数越多，他们将来就越有可能说“是”。
And by the time you realize you know, you will have already begun to say what you need to say.
而且当你意识到这个事实的时候你已经开始宣布你要说的事了。
The words you say in life are the words you say to yourself.
你一生说的话其实都是你对自己说的。
If you really want to catch a liar, listen to what people say and the way they say it.
如果你真想抓住骗子，就听听人们都说了什么、他们是怎么说的。
So whatever I say is just what the Father has told me to say.
故此，我所讲的话正是照着父对我所说的。
The way you say something is far more important than the thing you say.
你说话的方式比你说话的内容更重要的原因。
You'll learn what to say, what not to say, and how to make the most out of each conversation。
读了这个，你就知道什么该说，什么不该说，以及怎样最大限度地把握每一场谈话。
Never say "yes" on the phone; instead, say, "I'll get back to you."
绝对不要在电话上说“好”，而是说：“等一会儿再和你联系”。
To say "I love you" one must first be able to say the "I."
要说“我爱你”，首先必须能够说出“我”。
You can say goodbye to resentment. You can say goodbye to the negative feelings.
你不用在不得不对那些朋友或那些不在和你有关系的人说再见，虽然你可以带着怨恨情绪说再见，或其他一些不好的消极的情绪。
Some authorities say get up with the sun; some say get up with one thing, others with another.
有的权威讲，跟着太阳起床；还有的讲，跟着这样东西起床，又有的讲，跟着那样东西起床。
Some say they [the photos] are awful, some say they are beautiful.
一些人说照片很糟糕，另一些人则认为它们很美。
A patient who had damage to part of his brain and can only say one word, "tan," and the person would say, "tan, tan, tan, tan," and everything else was gone.
一位大脑遭受部分损伤的病人，这位病人只会说一个字，“叹”，说起话来这样的，“叹，叹，叹，叹”，其他的词全都无法说出。
We can say this and we can say that, but the most important thing is not to say, but instead to do.
我们可以说这说那，但最重要的事不是说，而是做。
The VCs will say you need them, and the super-angels will say you don't.
风投们会说你需要它们，而超级天使们会说你不需要。
And before we say that the soul view's got the better explanation, we have to ask ourselves, just how much of an explanation is it to say, "Oh I can explain consciousness."
在我们承认，灵魂观点更合理之前，我们必须问问自己，这个观点解释得到底如何，我可以解释意识？
Your analysis will suggest what you should say or write, what you should not say, and the tone you should use.
你的分析会告诉你该说些什么或者写些什么，你不该说什么以及你应该采用的语调。
Say you're flexible, or say it depends on the responsibilities of the job.
说你的期望是灵活的，或者说这取决于工作中担当的责任。
I can say no matter in pain, also can say no matter in the heart of the time.
我可以在痛的时候说没关系，也可以在心碎的时候说无所谓。
Originally, I should say something about my travel, but I wanna say nothing now. I will do it when I have the good mood and the enough time.
本来是有很多话要说的，但现在什么也不想说，等以后有心情，有时间的时候再慢慢说起吧。
If you have a car you do not say that you are the car. Why then, if you have a body, do you say you are the body?
如果你有车，你不会说你是那车。同样地，如果你有身体，为何还要说你是这身体？
If you have a car you do not say that you are the car. Why then, if you have a body, do you say you are the body?
如果你有车，你不会说你是那车。同样地，如果你有身体，为何还要说你是这身体？
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