What you're describing is a classic case of "passive aggressive" behavior.

你上面所描述的是一种典型的“消极抵抗”行为。

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I am nervous about appearing aggressive I may be too passive in my interactions.

因为我担心自己会表现出“好斗”，所以在交往中，我可能会过于被动。

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I am nervous about appearing aggressive I may be too passive in my interactions.

因为我担心自己会表现出“好斗”，所以在交往中，我可能会过于被动。

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