“你从来不听我说”，这种抱怨只会激起他们自我防御。

Wailing "You never listen to me" will only make them defensive.

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他们总是责备我，但是我从来不听他们的话。

They always blamed to me, but I never listened to them.

youdao

他们总是责备我，但是我从来不听他们的话。

They always blamed to me, but I never listened to them.

youdao