There's something wrong about lives, something inauthentic about lives that are lived without facing the facts of our mortality and living accordingly, whatever the appropriate responses might be.

那种生活是有问题的，不去面对我们终有一死的事实,并相应地生活的生命是不真实的，不管合适的反应可能是什么。

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But there's the middle possibility, which is not so much think about them and deny them, not so much think about them, accept them and act accordingly, but simply don't think about them.

但有一个折中的可能性，没有考虑太多也没有否认它们，没有考虑太多，接受它们并采取相应的行为，而只是完全不去考虑。

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