In other words, you can win people to your side more easily with gentle persuasion than by hostile actions.

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So let's actually, you might want to be a little bit gentle in your own notebook, but on my board let's get rid of all these strategies that are never a best response.

所以我们干脆点,在笔记本上,你们动作轻点,我直接在划掉这些非最佳对策的策略

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