Well, that may seem to be the most natural way to define death, but it's not an acceptable approach.

这似乎是定义死亡的最自然的方式，但并不是可以接受的方法。

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So, cognitive dissonance motivates me to create an answer that's more comfortable for me, "This must be a really wonderful group with a wonderful bunch of people."

所以认知失调促使我想出另一个答案,让我可以接受的答案，“这一定是一个很棒的兄弟会，里面的人都很棒”

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