Helen chose you without reason because she loves you without cause; embrace her without question and watch your weather change. Let go.

海伦毫无理性地选择了你，因为她对你的爱,也无原因，别问什么，拥抱她,看着你的境遇变迁，放开。

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I think what I want to do-- And sometimes that explanation is accurate, but the ones that are interesting here are the ones where you misattribute the cause of the arousal-- you make a mistake and think it's love when it might be due to something else.

我想做的是-,有时你的解释是正确的，但是有趣的解释是,是那些你犯了张冠李戴的错误-,你错误了认为是爱,而实际可能是其他的原因。

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