You're not going to alter how much pleasur you enjoyed previously, how much suffering you've undergone previously.

你无法改变,从前得到的多少快乐，从前遭受多少痛苦。

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The idea of probability theory is that no, you can't change things, there are all these objective laws of probability out there that guide everything.

而概率论的观点是,不,你无法改变事物,世间万物遵循客观的概率,它们即是定律

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.. What you can't change, loses-- when you focus on the fact that you can't change it, it loses some of its grip to upset you.

你无法改变的-,当你专注于”你无法改变它“这个事实，它就不会让你那么难受。

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